Falling in
love
For all the reason in the world.
Some people say there's no reason,
some say there is.
But ending up the honeymoon stage of love,
Couples look at each other for their needs,
Their believes.
But what's really going on about love,
no one really knows much about it.
Perceptions and predictions.
We humans are always doing that.
Falling in love is so easy.
Looking at it, it was darn well a way to relieve stress =)
but the only thing in love is, are you making a effort to keep
loving each other ? Many people just take love for granted but its
just there.
No effort put in, just a simple excuse and their off.
Many people are searching for the right one.
but the truth be told,
Anyone can be the right one.
Its just how you treasure him/her.
Here's one question for you people,
IF you really treasured him/her, and in the end she leaves
you.
Will you blame yourself ? or will you feel dishearten and never to
love again ?
never feel dishearten, Knowing you've give all you've got in a
relationship leaves you room for little regrets.
But ladies if its about sex and stuff on it, its more on if you
wanna save it for your husband, or just any other guy ?
But we cannot say that a relationship can survive with or without
sexual activites. Some people can, while others can't.
Nope this aren't and shakespear romeo and juilet. but lets just say
this for me that is, Falling in love isn't just for a reason or 2,
but its about caring and making both parties happy with a little
compromise and understanding, of course with some time with each
other making sure each other knows the way each other feels.
Falling out of
Love
Somethings many people dread.
Reasons wise, there are many too,
but people will just give a shake and just say its bullshit.
never the last falling out of love sometimes it painful.
But you can never forget, the pain.
memories will always stay within your mind so are you going to look
at it as a painful reminder or something as a past you must learn
from ?
Many people told me, why they fall out of love.
Few reasons :
He/She doesn't love me anymore
I don like the way she's/he's doing things*
He/She is not my type
I don't think I love him/her anymore.
* use your imagination people =)
Some reasons are always crappy,
but lets face it people.
When you fall out of love, someone always hurts.
no matter the reason given.
The reason there is just to forgive one's self.
Or a reason to break away from commitment.
For some they feel they never really love the guy/girl
Simply put as they are just testing.
People get hurt in these course of action along the way.
Not enough commitment, not enough this not enough that.
Here's 1 big problem there I always see around in singapore :
Couples are hurt by each other actions,
and they don't tell one another,
And yet they expect each other to understand ?
What are you psychic ? You mean you become
psyhic when you are lovers ?
Well sometimes, people tend to know what the other half
wants,
but not everytime. No one's perfect ( no pun on this guys )
So i rather say most couples I know never let each other understand
their feelings and expect the other half to come over and
understand them.
Still the fact remains,
When someone falls out of love,
there's always pain.
No escaping.
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Just my opinions,
So guys anyone got any things to say about falling in and out of
love ?
