whats ur view on long distance dating and courtship?

last SG · 2006-07-28T13:46:06+00:00

seriously.to me i feel dat long distance r/s is like a slow posion.i took it up b4. dats y i noe. sometimes. b more realistic.webcams can see cannot touch.

BadzMaro SG

Trust , love and commitment.

These 3 values and no matter where.. can work. Same goes for courtship.

alexkusu SG

works for some

Advante_101 SG

Constant contact is important..buy plenty of calling cards (some allow u to talk up to 2hrs depending on the country) Send each other photos often..cute pillow with ur own perfume tat u r using so tat she/he can think of u & miz u during sleep..Roses or item by airmail etc..Since u cant be there for her..Help her out by sending some pocket money once per week

Meet up once a month or two for sex..No matter how u all deny this is very important in a long distance relationship..It will be the memory of it tat keeps u two together strong..If cant..use phone or photos to fu-ck each other fondly hehehe Mr. Green

Until when both are ready..Then marry if fate permits..

Most importantly is tat BOTH of u must realli LOVE each other TRUST and TALK..If not it wont worked out

What else..? If still have other ideas i cant remember liao..Thanks you & Good luck to u buddy..

Devil1976 SG

It's on a different form of arena.

The main reason why most long-distance friendship could work more readily than a long distance BGR is because they are often less demanding... The form(s) of commitment(s) required can also be much more different... A friend's love can sometimes be much more embracing than a partner's one...

Devil1976 SG

Then it's probably not the same 'cream' we're talking about here... Cool

Devil1976 SG

Though I'm not too sure about Missqi... But you probably DO hold that certain 'factor' in you which would at least make the relationship drags on for quite a while, if not even to make IT REALLY HAPPENS...

Your shortcoming is that if you suffer a 'rebound' due to this relationship, it's gonna be QUITE BAD.... DO REMEMBER this point... Cool

Devil1976 SG

Same ingredients, different proportions and timing makes a different soup... Cool

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Laughing

urgh pls tell me its not THAT sort of cream u're talking about. thats disgusting Neutral

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ya i remember that. I'm committed tho. Honeymoon periods are not realistic. A relationship is a good one if it can withstand everday realities. I think it'll last quite a while at least. Mr. Green

Devil1976 SG

Err... No. Rolling Eyes It's the walk between process and experience which is quite a unique valid point in your case. It's sort of like a transition that has yet to take place... If worse, I fear... Triggered on unnecessary notes....

When you would be finishing your school and be back in Singapore? Or are you even thinking of coming back...?

Devil1976 SG

I certainly do hope so too...? For the good of both of ya.... Wink

ölala SG

wat is this?
shes my 15 yrs old penpal

rie_sia SG

well doesnt wk for me...............
the separation was too much n we drifted apart.

once bitten twice shy

ölala SG

but im sure that there are ways to help push the r/s forward am i not?

orange88 SG

but the only question is will it last when one is only a normal human being yearning for physical affection at times?

ölala SG

thank you but i wuld rather take emotion affections

Beckhamagic SG

Hi,

it would be very tough on you and the other party...

Initially both of you might find it sweet and romantic but after some time... problems will then start to arise...

Take for instance... when you are happy or sad... who is the one that is going to share you joy and pain apart from your family?

When you need love and care... where is the other party?

To conclude... it is very difficult to work out but it also depends on the duration that both of you are apart... anything more than 1 year is considered as very difficult for me... Wink

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erm i didn't understand the 1st bit.

2nd bit i can answer. i graduate 2008 and then i'll start working in UK.

[email protected] SG

thanks.

the other thing is, i know there are some guys eyeing her. i get a bit irked by that, even though she totally dislikes them. Its those guys im feeling annoyed about, not her. What I wouldn't give to castrate some of them.

Devil1976 SG

Yes. Just like any other normal BGR, there're certainly ways to push the relationship forward... But like I've said, it's a different platform... And often than not, there're transition phases... Not everyone can get used to that... Especially now that you're talking about 2 people within a relationship...

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