My painful Traumatic...What did girls actually want?

last SG · 2006-08-29T16:47:22+00:00

a learned man once told me If a person doesn't see eye to eye with you, no point continuing. Becoz he will never admit defeat or admit his mistake and will c...

xShevchenkox SG

When u treated her too well and too sincere, she dun appreciate it at all de
l still hav the shadows of my last r/s...l remember l was kept being scold and scold for no reason by my ex....even if l had try my best in putting things rite...l am still scold..the words that she used to scold me....the scolding of me continuosly had occasionally appeared in my mind and l feel tired and want cry out at times when l think of it...y must l be scold when l have done nthing wrong ? Imagine...sumone scolding you...and u hav to keep quiet and apologise...how is that feeling? Now l think back...it is like humiliation and l feel that my integrity and morality had been trampled... l will never be able to brush it away...not that l am petty...l oso dun noe how to put it.. My last r/s experience is too painful...sumhow l reali hope this had not started in the 1st place, although it has been the past....l am not sad anymore...but the scar of this incident still is in me...From this incident..l learn sumtinz too...

R/s is sumtinz that reali nver last...the 1st 3 months maybe honeymoon period, after that into quarrels and conflicts and then into breakup...kinda sad.. dont understand what they want oso

Maybe in a r/s, l think it is better not to get engrossly into it...it might not hurt so much after all when u put in minimal efforts...

Some Girls, l dun meant all... cant be satisfied no matter how hard u try..

ölala SG

Thats why i hate sg girls
Demanding lots and u can never know whats up in their screwed brain!

Ito_^ SG

dun worry.

got foreign talent! Laughing

ölala SG

Since ur mindset is rooted to the fact that locals girls are liek that,then u shld lookelse where

our locals gals cant make it in terms of charecter la
true la theres good one,but the chances of u throwing ur line in and hooking up seaweeds is so darn high

M©+square SG

So you've never got into a relationship,

I suppose you've come across alot of experiences in life and have meet half the population of singapore girls.

If not, tell me. How did you come up with such great conclusion?
I'm interested to know.

M©+square SG

Dear xShevchenkox,

Heart and hard Efforts, when not recipocated are - heartbreaking.
It is always good to give in your ability and what you can.
If a person feels that the partner is not what he or she wants, it is best they realise the mistake and withdraw.

I hope you'll find a girl who could make you happy and vice versa.
There is no absolute in this world.
Don't give up hope and have such pessimistic view ok?

Cheers

ölala SG

eh
plz lah

i din get into a r/s b4 true

thats bcuz most gals i see around have really bad charecter
like i said demanding lots...i chose carefully,if as a friend,they got such undesirable traits...what mess am i gonan get into if i'm in a r/s with them?

but i'm fair...i know theres good ones
but i'll still say this...chances of hooking the wrong one is so high

M©+square SG

How do you ascertain that they have bad characters?

Chances of hooking the wrong ones is how high...count by percentage - in your view, how high? Please answer this question.

And it might have been your social circle isn't big enough, your lots are somehow all that you don't like.
So isn't it unfair to come up with such conclusion?

You admited, there are good ones.
Yet you also mentioned Local Girls cannot make it.
May i suggest that you make up your mind?

You can take up your stand and insist that Local girls have bad character, you may also admit that you've not seen enough of things happening beyond your sight.

When you're 17 and not gone into a relationship yet. It's unfair to the girls in Singapore to be labelled.

dokono SG

Hey guy.. there are good girls and bad girls everywhere, whether in Singapore or China. Naturally you will want to avoid the bad ones.

You just have to keep looking. It does not mean the bunch of girls you come across right now are the representation of the majority of the girls here. So based on what u said the ''chances of hooking up with the wrong one is so high'', then u shd be happy that when u picked up the right one since it's so rare, correct? It all boils down to the individual person.

mistyblue SG

just because oil floats on water, therefore pigs float on water?

TZR SG

Hmm there r nice girls la... 10% of total singaporeans maybe?

i find nice looking girls the most attitude. haha not so nice one maybe will better inner beauty.

0lala SG

My social circle aint big enuff?
I got female friends and enuff of it already...handful of them out there are juz demanding and love to wayang

when i say locals,i meant the mass so dun come talking cheap with me
If local gals were that good,why are there so many flocking,looking for overseas gals

M©+square SG

I despise people who only have seen the fruit, have never tasted it BUT goes around telling people that it's no good.

It's best that you refrain from loud statements in topic which you don't understand, so that you don't seem so much like a fool.
Sharing and learning is good. Making sweeping statements is a no no.

Cheers

missqi SG

the biggest probable reason why u have nv gotten into an r/s before is because nobody wants you.

0lala SG

There are things u dun have to touch to know its burn

From what breakup reason i hear from my friends and what others have experience,i can safetly have a conclusion.
o yes,dun u know that locals gals from the pre generation are way better than those now?
good...so u haven seen a decline in social morlaity?

M©+square SG

Indeed you don't have to touch flame/heat to know what burn is.
But you don't know what pain is, even when people say pain, you see their expression-very pain, but you don't understand.

So i assume you're not going into a relationship? Laughing

Haha....come come, tell me more about Lala's great findings on social morality.

0lala SG

nah its more probaly i'm not in the rush as i'm looking for long terms

and now ur making redundat statement

M©+square SG

I tot she had made a point worth considering!
Just that she presented it in a crude manner Laughing

0lala SG

U guys dun know me
trying to break my ego?
if so lets post our pic and make it uncopyable?
making statement to break otehrs ego is a nono unless u got soemthing to fluant

i get headturns from gal so what expect u that i cant get into a r/s?

dare post ur pic?

xShevchenkox SG

wah..my topic turns into an aruguement?