How to solve ??

Seth35 SG

I have this problem... It's very irritating...How do you solve when people put words into your mouth...When you read books on war people purposely put words say u made a political statement against the Goverment or trying to put you down... When people ask you about your enlistment... And when you answered them say claim to other people you are showing off... When they Purposely in front of your face say not everyday is a Sunday... Dont you think these people are very childish or Father and mother never teach Well ??

And the worse thing is that i am hot tempered and reacted to the way they wanted me to react ??? How do you solve these problems ??? Is Ignorance an Option ?? How Long and How Effective ?? Confused

Seth35 SG

I think Most adults here in this Forum might have Gone through this before...Experiencing people of all types in your office or at your workplace...I want to know how you people deal with people like that... Confused

Devil1976 SG

Personally... I think you should start from yourself 1st...? Controlling your temper.. ceratinly would benefit yourself and the people around you in the future to come....?

How old are 'those people'...? Who are they...? I think it's really not that wise to let such people spoil your day...? What do you think...?

Mouth is theirs... Mind is yours... You can always choose to keep lousy comments aside especially when they're quite meaningless...

browniebaobao SG

if ur conscience is clear, y bother abt wat ple say?

Seth35 SG

Obviously you guys dont know how i feel... my conscience is clear...but you dont get people going around say aiyah this guy is like that or stay away from that Fellow hes a bad person... Why am i experiencing these things when i have done nothing stupid and wrong at all... Sad

Seth35 SG

Even before i can say anything...Everyones Stereotypes me as a Bad guy... People dont bother to really look into the matter...Even when somethings i am innocent in...I just get blamed for nothing ! Mad

ölala SG

i oso get blamed for nth!
Bt u can juz take it that these ppl are talking for the sake of fully utilising their GOD-given-mouth

Redundant speech serve only to exercise their jaw muscle

Seth35 SG

I am dealing with a 19 year old with a 14 year old mindset… its sad… Gone through ITE and they didnt learn what is maturity… Parents to blame or Child to blame we will never know…

NotFromVenus SG

Its still your own problem . Laughing

dakkon_blackblade SG

The more you care about such things the more kick those assholes would get out of saying those things, and so they'll say even more. Hence you should just heck care them and sooner or later they'll shut up or find some other more effective means of amusing themselves.

Seth35 SG

Not only say me la...Following me around like some Paparazzi...bunch Of LunaTic People like Run out of Mental Hospital like that... Mad Mad I bet they Eat too much of their own shit thats why they go Crazy... Laughing

NotFromVenus SG

Its your problem , do you feel entertained ?

Seth35 SG

Not really entertained...Cause why? These people are a bunch of lunatics ! Laughing

Infantile SG

agree.. the best way out.. why bother

orange88 SG

in my opinion, its an extremely small matter. why bother?
you have a choice to take it as a joke or react bad tempered, why choose the latter? ignorance is probably not the best choice, just joke with them i suppose?
take things lightly, firstly u gotta control your bad temper

orange88 SG

you're a 19 year old guy with a 14 year old mindset more like it.. just dont blame it on others, try fixing yourself first

ölala SG

He dun have to fix
Its mistakes and stupidty on the others part
the oen who shld fix is the IDIOTS out there

Seth35 SG

The other thing i heard was that they said was Not everyday is a Sunday... and The more you get a girlfriend the more they will try to make life difficult for me... Sad Sad

Devil1976 SG

And just how you know we don't know how you feel?

The question is seriously if you learn to handle the situation better? Such people are around... You simply can't stop the world from producing such kind of people... At least not for now....

orange88 SG

what i meant by fixing is controlling his bad temper attitude. Its a working world and society, you gotta withstand critics now and then. You cannot just blow off because of something stupid. Imagine this happening in an important meeting?
Its because they have stupid comments, that you dont have to give a two shit about them! Wink