I got a very good friend at my workplace. Though we are both
married, we talk and share a lot. Can talk anything under the sun.
We share our sorrows , happiness and many personal things. I feels
that she cares for me. When I am down, she will also try to talk to
me and give a pat on the shoulder. Vice versa. To an extend, I
realized I talk to her more than talking to my wife. We also go out
quite often (just 2 of us). I will buy her gifts and meals. She
will buy me tie, watch, makan etc. Our actions and behavior are
just like a any couple. At times, she will even be upset with me if
I dun treat her well.
When I am overseas, I will email her daily. During nights and
weekends, we will sms one another. Occassionally, we will go out
for a walk or for a meal. More recently, I feel so attached to her
that I feel uncomfortable not seeing her for just one day!
As for my wfe, we dun talk much. She is also not sensitive type.
Think she is more interested in her tv programme than talking to
me.
On one hand, I am very fortunate to have such a good friend. On the
other hand, I sensed that I begin to like her. Dun get me wrong, we
did not engaged in sexual related activity. I dun want to break up
her family but I can't control my emotion at times.
Can someone give me some constructive advice what I should
do?