Originally posted by Bontakun:
[b][quote]Originally posted by jam on a bread:
It's been 2 yrs but you still feel sore.
Ok, so a guy, he likes you and you like him. He is popular with the
girls.Something happened,he mocks at someone just because he knows
I dun really like the person. The person feels upset.She then took
this opportunity to get near to him. He makes use of this person to
gets you jealous. You think it's because of some habits that you
do, it's bad and he dun like it. You tried to change. Unsuccessful,
but still a bit of change. A misunderstanding occurs and he sort of
drifted from you. The girl keeps sticking to him. Everytime I see
him, it's tat girl. I smile at the guy, the girl laugh at me. In
the end, i look into his eyes, I cld feel that his feelings has
been diminished. And the next time I saw him, he was speaking so
close to the girl, comforting abt her results. I also have not so
good results..why he didn't do the same??
What do you like about this
person? Is he handsome? He has a funny character? Or is it
the "good gals like bad boys" syndrome? How well do you know him and how much you trust
him?
Sorry, we never talk to each other except communicated in
body language. I pass him a note to confess but he didn't reply..I
thought he is shy or need some getting use to. But noo..in the end,
this happens. The girl is a bully and she didn't do well in her
exams. I am awlays late, absent from sch and didn't do well. Why
the guy can be such a hypocrite to side with her??? Is been mean to
others ok than me coming late, absenting??
Communicated in body language? Can you clarify on it? My 1st
thought is something physical between you two. Why are you always late or absent? Is it to
get his attention or is it your own characteristic to do so? Why do
you think he is such a hypocrite?
What will you do in my position? Am I wrong or right in
thinking that I will one day revenge her when the time comes? I
sometimes feel that she's such a slut,knowing well we have feelings
for each other and she just comes into the picture. Actually, what
would you do?
There is no "right or wrong" in this case. Only who gets hurt more.
Do you want that just to satisfy your
vengeance of being hurt initially?
A classic example of "Guy likes girl A but gets closer to girl
B".
I can only point out some questions based on what you have typed
and see what answers you have. BUT regarding your question
"Actually, what will you do?" ---> I will not hinder their
relationship as friends or more. I have more things to enjoy then
being fustrated over such matters.[/b]
Sorry, took so long to reply..
What I like abt him? I dunno..I just like him..at first, I dun have
a good impression of him cause he has that heck-care attitude. Erm,
ya, he is handsom, if not why girls come to him, right? I have
heard that a lot of girls have a crush on him too.
We communicated in body language, not having an affair lol. As in,
we wld smile at each other, we wld stare at each other for quite
long and he wld be going glassy eyes on me.
Why am I always late and absenting? I find school really draining
my esteem and energy..the feelings I got in school is
lost,depressed and hopeless. How wld I have the motivation to go to
school? Erm.., I have to admit, ya, I sometimes come late to get
his attention.
Why is he a hypocrite? tat's cause he doesn't like ppl who bully me
and yet he goes with the girl that is the mastermind behind my
bullying? isn't that hypocrite or what? His friends are those that
also come late..so I dun get it why is he hating on me doing this?
or issit his friends dun like, then he also follow them dun like?
It isn't the first day he knows me anyway..
