htnaks my husband is the man tht never care abt future or plan
for future, it is always me got to think and get my ideas thrown in
rubbish, not been listen or saying i am always a trouble maker, i
am the one that love to plan or do it or try it, fail nevermind,
life still goes on until i go bankcrupt. he is the one that so
scared of failure, to me ok to fail fall wake up just wallk over
it, nothing to worry, so we always go tcommunication problem for
thatr, maybe once i plan something tht never works but to me it is
ok, but to him it is so big big matter, since then anything i say
is no or never, always he say i always make wrong decisin or plan
but i told him life is not always perfectright, we ‘ve to try new
things, and not just stick to old methods, he rather not try
antyning again after that, i guess he got no trust in me anymore,
so it is a torture everything i plan or wish to have or i am ready
for challenge all he say is never dream i will listen to u again,
so anything he plans now he plan it with his parents first or his
families member first, lastly or no choicehtne he tell me of his
plans, once it hurts e deeply after planning everythign then he
told me he is set to go and go for it, when i disagree, he said no
point telling u earlier, he say i willsurely aganist it, so after
he consult his families n make arrangement he go for it, so that is
his planning. i am so sad, disapponint but still swallow it even it
is pain. now all my plans will be crushed by him in anger and
hated. so sad. i really don’t know what is my future in this
marriage. even i wish to have lots of children he say no and no
means never can have until now i am too old to have more kids. am i
to be blame for all this. or am i too stupid. worse i can’t make
decision esp in front of his families, i get shouted at n verbally
abuse.
