The issue is how can someone forget the 1st time he fell in
love? The first love always indeed has great emotional and great
significant meaning to someone, perhaps thorugh his ex that he has
learnt how to be a better person and how to love you properly,
imagine that you 're the gf before his ex, do you think your bf
will be mature enough to know how to treat you well? Do you think
you will be able to last?
Perhaps you might be pissed by how immature he is and how badly he
treats you. Why not share those memories and lessons in life he has
learnt so that you too can improve your relationship with him,
instead of getting jealous of who occupies his mind? Love also
needs a listening ear, you cannot always expect a guy always to
listen to a girl's problem, and shut off when the guy pour out his
supplications on her. Guys can be emotional and cry over things
too, if you are not going to be his pillar of support then who
is?
Give it some thoughts.