Is it appropriate to approach a girl and ask for her number?

last SG · 2006-08-04T12:11:45+00:00

there are alot of tactics of asking a gal's number. if both of u related to school work, find excuse by asking both of u can help each other by sharing tuto...

shade343 SG

Is it courteous and polite to do so? If it isnt, are there other ways to go about getting to know the girl better? Some of my poly classmates did that and they were rejected in a curt manner….any advice?

Pitot SG

For me, i think u shld at least know her some way or another before u ask for her number.

used SG

unless u r brad pitt, you wont have much luck.

forfun_cash SG

Ya. Provided if the girl is those loose loose type,and if not, slightly to the loose side.

joeacid SG

Hmm... i would like to ask abt this oso~ coz one of my friend(Dun look good), wants to woo a gal from Burgarking~ He dunno her, and i dun think she even seen him b4~ he says he wanna pass a letter to her... I'm like arghh, if i'm the gal, i'll be scared.

P.S: Sry Threadstarter~ for Hijacking ur thread for abit~

Bontakun SG

Visit da place where she frequent more often loh... Slowly she notice mah. Cool

shade343 SG

Some of my cb classmates when to "help" me ask for that girl's number when I just gave an honest comment that she looked beautiful. They approached the girl and told her that I was interested in knowing her better.

The girl took one look at me (my back facing her) and said "Im not interested"....maybe she used to ppl going up to her and asking for number.

-_-" Laughing

Boeing787 SG

Of course lar, your back facing her and you ask her that question of course she rejects you lar. Please, next time face the girl and be sincere about it ! Confused

missqi SG

wa lao.
if u want her no, ask her personally ma.

mhcampboy SG

kids.. Laughing

walesa SG

That depends on whether she deems you as an "appropriate" person to give her number to? Laughing

But I'd second what missqi said - if you ever want her number, the only decent way to obtain it is to approach her personally and not through some proxies...

shade343 SG

I never ask my friend to help me get her number what.

Bontakun SG

There are certain times when friends are more than a help than you want. Maybe next time you approach her and introduce yourself?

missqi SG

then u kp simi?

ditzy SG

Of course its ok! Its not like you're pointing a loaded gun or threaten to rape her or something. Laughing

shade343 SG

Because the girl now might think badly of me....zzz

ditzy SG

Or they might be thinking "Woohoo!!! I hooked one!!!" Laughing

Beckhamagic SG

If you want to have her number then go and ask it from her personally... if she don't want to give you her number then you can give her your number mah...

Twisted Evil

Be more flexible and creative...

digicharat SG

machiam like jacky wu guess x3 show.
those girls, machiam like got a little notebook to keep record of people trying to know them. Laughing

newcomer SG

Why not? It’s fun.