ölala SG Anyone have this "problem" like me? usually when my family are at home,i fel really vexed and iritated bcuase of the large commotion and noises im not talking abt quarells but the fact that it can get noisy in the household makes me iritaed however,I feel really peace and comfortable when they are nt at home..and i mean all.. thats when i can turn on some classic and slow music and read some books ps:im nt an introvert but a social butterfly Im socialable but at times i wanna b alone and appreciate that feeling yea..i do go shopping alone too if i wanna anyone have this issue?
huy SG exactly how i feeling now.. i have a big family but my hse was rather small.. i hate it when they are around... it only when i am alone i can sense peace and freedom.. thus i hate sunday..
browniebaobao SG used to be like that ba.. cannot tolerate noise. but now ok la.. heard of 'xin jing ze ning'? if ur heart is peaceful, no matter how noisy the environment is, it wun affect u.
KenPlus SG I used to hate noise too like when my mum close the door,it was loud,when she around,she on the tv extremely loud,those hokkien songs etc. But recently she was admittied in hospital ,then i realise the house is getting too quiet.
Devil1976 SG Used to.... I just hang around outside at quiet places more... Now I'm also more like yourself, a social butterfly.... And more like what bbb has said, it's all in my mind....
mistyblue SG I shut the world out with my walk man... now, ipod, handphone or physically shut the doors, go hide in the toilet or quieter places. I am an introvert.
KenPlus SG Hey thanks,she will be discharged pretty soon but need some time to recover loh that why sometimes when it noisy i complain but now it too quiet felt weird to see her room empty.