I have been in a similar situation b4, but my role is that of
the new bf.
I met my girlfriend 1-2 months after she broke up with her bf of 6
years. Less than 1 month later, we got togeher. After 3 months
together, she started 2 behave strangely. She told me her ex-bf has
been keeping in touch with her, and that once or twice they meet
up. Although hurt, I kept quiet because i trusted my gf not to do
anything behind my back. Furthermore, the guy already had another
gf.
Then 1 or 2 weeks before Xmas, she told me that her ex- bf had
asked for a patch. I ask her who she loves more. She said me, but
on the other hand, her bf needs her more than I do. So I gave her 1
month time to think about our relationship, and who she loved
more.
1 month came and gone, but she still didn't give me a reply, so i
just told her that I will let go of this relationship. A few weeks
later, i heard she and her ex-bf got back together. That was in
2004. Last year, they got married.
Now, back to the tread-starter. Its all up to u. Who do u love
more? Who do u think will hurt u lesser? Ask urself why in the 1st
place u broke up with ur ex-bf? Will the problems that happened the
1st time round happen again? Just ask urself these few qns, and u
will most probably get ur answer. Wish u well.
