I suppose her post wasn't meant for Devil.
If that statement is referring to linc's bf, at his change. i could
see the point.
If it was meant for threadstarter - linc, i don't see how it
relates? Because threadstarter at this moment knows what she wants,
maybe she also know what is right for herself.
Somehow it's not a growth or change, it is the work of sub
conciousness.
Growth and changes took place thruout the nine years. Yes like what
yunnie have mentioned.
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Somehow, these decisions may not be right, but the fact is - it is
all to each his own.
This applies to all Men(human).
Cheers