Dear an_open_door,
Are you sure you are open door, sound more like a close door to me.
You say it with 'O' level can get $3500 that was donkey year when
police wear shorts. Please dig yourself out to the real world, ask
around how many degree holders out there that work for years and
yet to get $3500 ? and how many are out of jobs ?
Think you forgot to be thankful, you already taken for grant your
good life and fine fault with it. You get hoildays, shopping trips
.... but have you ever ask yourself, why your husband seem
emotionally drainned ? Did you even stop to think how much
strenght, effort, blood and soul he have given up to earn that type
of money in the tough job market to be able to bring you on
hoildays and shopping trips, of course he is drainned.
If he working his ass off to provide for hoilday, what is so wrong
of expecting the non-working wife to make all the hoilday booking
and arrangements. You think bossess so good pay your hubby to use
office time to do it ?
You a problem woman, you ask him to order in resturant, if he not
order, you and your kid fuss over it !!! Instead of blaming
yourself for spoilting the kids to be picky on food, you blame your
husband. Of course everything he does - you all not happy , do you
also not happy, of course he is dare not get involve with you and
your kids !!!
Of course he is a unhappy man !
What you to do ? get out of your housewife and see back what is
really happening outside, it is no longer the good old sunshine
days that you left it to be a housewife, it is raining days which
your husband have to struggle. Maybe instead of complaining about
him getting his clothes and your house wet, maybe it is time for
you to wait outside and hold a umbrella for him to shelter him from
the rain into the house.
