forget her?

kaoya SG

how do u forget abt ur ex after breakup ah?

we juz broke up recently
looking back, i realized tt it's because i was too clingy
and getting too nice 2 her lah
she's been taking it very well
coz she's a super busy person, with lotsa of things to occupy her mind

i noe tt e relationship is over lah
but finding it hard 2 forget abt her lah
i've been trying my best lah,
but thoughts of her keep on creeping in
like a background noise liddat
any tips?

dragg SG

keep yourself busy and time will heal.

KenPlus SG

Dump away all things that remind her.
But actually best solution is to get another gf although it may seems unfair for the girl.

casino_king SG

Get rid of anything that reminds you of her and everytime the thoughts come, concentrate and think of something else... even if you succeed only for a minute.

Slowly it will be 2 minutes and then 2 hours and then 2 days and soon you will forget her name.

We all go through this one lah...

JerzZzzZ SG

keep her in your thoughts, why banish one who was once dear to you from your thoughts. this may sound cliche, but smile because love has once blossomed, don't cry because it has died.

if you truly love her, don't try to pester her, instead, wish her well. but think of her occasionally, why not?

casino_king SG

In the beginning it is very painful and disbilitating. You can't eat and sleep and work.

So the first thing to do is banish her from your thoughts so that life can go on. Only after you have successfully done that, only then can you cherish the time you had when you were together.

Bontakun SG

x2

Cherish the times you had with your loved, even though you 2 had gone seperate ways in the end. If you loved her (just as she loved you), you should all the more wish her happiness for you loved and cared. There is no need to harbour hatred or any negative feelings towards her, that only showed you loved her based on emotions and NOT on love itself.

Time will heal your pain of losing her, in the mean time go out with friends or do something to pre-occupy yourself. Friends can share your problems even if not all can answer your questions in heart. If you still have any problems, you may want to post here or PM to a few people you can trust. We can offer some form of "help" to you.

Wink

boredandsleepy SG

y must all the answers be forgetting about her or cherish the time when u were with her?

my advice is, just take it as u have downgraded your relationship between the both of you from bf and gf to good friends. com'on man, breaking up doesnt mean u cant go out with her again rite?

true u cant hold her hands anymore and true u cant kiss her again, respect her decision, and mature yourself. its always better to have 1 more friend than to lose a friend. and for now, do those things that u werent able to do when u were with her. enjoy life but dont waste it. thats my piece of advice to u.

Bontakun SG

We all have our own perspectives and views (some may seem biased), which is why posting in forum is good. Can see more opinions. Mr. Green

Yrs is a good 1. Wink

boredandsleepy SG

thx , and the 1st sentence is just something for me to start off with, dun want my post to have boring starts lolx Razz Razz Razz Razz

Bontakun SG

Laughing
Good start.

neverendingtrauma SG

continue dating and fu cking other girls, its easy to transfer your feelings from your ex to the next chiobus ! thats practical true advice (for myself at least)