Would You ? .......

NotFromVenus SG

Would you ask your spouse to DIY later , if :

You cook an entire healthy meal on your own at home and your spouse say: "Since these are not what i wanted to eat , I want (for example) 'abalone sharks fin!' "
So your spouse go da bao. Refuses to eat what you have prepared.

What kind of relationship is this ? Mad

dork3d SG

Unhealthy relationship...

browniebaobao SG

err.. DIY here means?

OasisBlue SG

do it yrself?

NotFromVenus SG

Means you go settle it yourself (DIY).

Embarassed

browniebaobao SG

juz bcos he dun want to eat wat u cook, u ask him to DIY as punishment?

is ur cooking horrible or not ar?

mistyblue SG

spouse cannot see the time, love and effort put into by the cook.
A bit sad.

Then from that day on, I would stop cooking or just cook my own food.

NotFromVenus SG

The food is tasty as my friends all had praises for them.

Juz becoz spouse did not give higher house allowance, so cook a bit simpler coz of budget.

But the treatment is juz too much , not worth the effort! Evil or Very Mad

Ito_^ SG

scold him/her lor.

and cook for urself from now on.

browniebaobao SG

ask him whether he wants to eat and what he wants to eat, then u cook.

only 2 of u eating ar?

then maybe dabao is better.

Devil1976 SG

But seriously... Some people just cannot take food they don't like to eat one... Maybe it just don't suit their taste.. Would you feel good also if your spouse force himself to take the food just to give you face, but end up unhappy for the rest of the day or night?

If you feel not worth the effort then next time ask for his opinion 1st or simply don't cook lah..... Twisted Evil