Devil1976 SG But you taught me a thing or 2 though? Thanks to you, we shall REVISE the way we do our MODERATIONS NOW....
Devil1976 SG Talk about justice in AA...? If got 'justice' then alot of people won't be CRYING in AA lia... WAKE UP YOUR IDEAS...
laurence82 SG So we just give up? Then it would be better to tell everyone to succumb to their helplessness and not pick themselves up and fight another day.
Devil1976 SG Think somehow I can agree with you on the 'personal' part... NEXT time I shall be MORE SYSTEMATIC...?
Devil1976 SG Not succumbing to their helplessness doesn't mean they have to 'fight' it... Sometimes there can be other options... Sometimes you see as 'just' in your eyes need not be 'just' in others' eyes...
laurence82 SG Systematic is not the word I would use Inherently, my gripe was about ill definitions of the term 'religious comments', inconsistent enforcement of the two warnings given etc Its nice to know someone would want to assess my personal character, but I believe them to be irrelevant to the issues at hand.
laurence82 SG So applying your logic, I have to fight it, coz its my choice or option. Again, using your logic, 'do as the Romans do' doesnt apply, coz again, its not my options or choices.
Devil1976 SG My logic doesn't says 'you have to fight it'. I said there're other options available sometimes other than 'fighting it'... Read carefully.... But nonetheless, yes.. You can CHOOSE to 'fight it'. Of course, given that it was your own decision... You'll naturally have to be responsible for it....? 'Do as the Romans' wasn't really referring to the 'helpness' and 'fighting it' things... It means more to respect the laws and system when you're somewhere... Of course, you can once again choose to 'fight it'. But in this case, it would be more like challenging it...? All depends on your reason(s) for challenging the authority and whether is it truly a meaningful act? And 'meaningful' in what sense? In your own opinion or otherwise...?
M©+square SG Very well, In future definitions will be clear, covering all aspects of it. No challenge will be accepted since definitions is set. And all decisions will be made by Mod's disceration, no further questions asked. Enforcement will be swift. Happy...? Cheers
kikq SG please stop already or use PMs...that's what they're for you know. you're spamming the poor boy's thread
Devil1976 SG Some things are not meant for PMs.... Because messages are meant for ALL. Don't worry, we're not spamming.. We're just a bit more TALKATIVE...
Kuali Baba SG At least your lass is honest. Both of you are not the only ones affected by parents who can't let go.
Devil1976 SG Err... May not allow the relationship to run too smooth if this carry on...? Another way which you might like to try handling all these would be to go HONEST together with your gf and hope to gain the TRUST and CONFIDENCE of her mum in you... Though this move MAY or may not guarantee results... It's all to your own venture and decision as to which move you'll like to take based on your own judgement on the actual scenerio (we can only advise based on what you've said and have no physical clue to anything)...
