Haiz Someone help me should i wait?

76ster SG

Hi all, i just new to this forum hope u all can help me =)

I have a relation with a girl for 3 years.
This girl go after me she chase me for one year and during this time i treat her badly. But i understand this is wrong. I have make her cry almost everyday and i know i am a bustar.

During the 2nd year, i accept her and found that i really love her and i try to give all the best to her but 2nd year almost every time she flare her anger at me and i trying to tahan for one year. She scold me for nothing sometimes and i dont really flare back.

Till 3rd year both of us abit buey tahan leow and i relation get rocky. During this state, one of my freind step in her heart and she fall in love with this guy.
But i cant understand i have trust this guy so much yet he snatch my GF.
(It is just a crush)

I am very sad and in my heart i still love her alot no matter what she do. I willing to wait for her to come back and i show her that she can marry me and have a good life.

May be it is stupid that once a girl heart is lose there is no point waitiinng for her.
NO i beleive that god will help me as my heart is with her.

regards
sad boy

Magnus SG

Dunno whether god will help you or not. But god sure helped her. Twisted Evil

BrUtUs SG

my guess is tat u still young so no need to go the way of waiting game... jz move on with newer things in life n relationships too... let fate decide...

CannyOng SG

Moral of the story! Don accept a gal who chase you as yr gf! Hehehehe Laughing

ptw SG

Hi, since she has left you, why do you need to wait for her then? Did you do anything wrong or rather so wrong in the first place that makes her leave you? How did she left you for your friend. SOrry for asking too much...

If its really her fault, why do you need to give her an alternative if in future,she realised that she has chosen a wrong guy???

ANyway, waiting for her will definitely make yourself more miserable and you will not be able see what lies ahead. Be happy, make your concious mind think positively. Cheers.

pierre^^ SG

i will punch ur fren if i were u. i hate backstabbers

One written rule. Nv be a third party in ani relationship, especially if that is ur fren.

browniebaobao SG

karma?

what goes round comes round.

u treated her badly in the first yr, second yr she return all that to u.

ptw SG

likewise for her, she will get her karma too, be it good or bad… learn from the past and move on. cheers

missqi SG

move on lah.
walao.
karma leh.
why bother waiting?
it is obvious she is sick of you alr.

parn SG

See my signature...hope it'll help you to understand a bit more about love itself.

R3SsH|n SG

“don’t give up the entire forest for one tree?”

Sakuraflower SG

4get about it and move on...

who tell u treat her so badly in the first place.....

kopman SG

wah brudder,i also same situation as u sia last time.wah think of it heartpain and the guy who snatch my ex is still in my soccer team and a friend.

kopman SG

and oh ya regrading whether u shld wait or not,i dun think so Crying or Very sad

crossword SG

I think no point waiting or thinking of her areadi. Girls dun look back. When they leave, they never return. Look at it this way, if she can do this to you now, she can do it to you again if she returns to you. Anyway, all da best to you whatever your decision is. Very Happy

de_middle SG

close chapter & move on