Shld i tell her that i like her??

last SG · 2006-06-27T01:51:49+00:00

It has been a week and I guess u r right.. shes a quiet, soft-spoken type of gal and theres like a barrier between us.. I dunno y leh.. Im not saying that...

lonestar86 SG

For the past 20 yrs, Ive never ever tell a gal straight in her face that I like her b4..
I seriously think that I shld try it before I get enlisted into the Army..
Cus if I dun try, Ill never know what I can achieve..

Ive been working part-time for 3 months..
Will be enlisting in Oct (3 months from now)..
Theres this colleague of mine who is 18 yr old, 2 yrs younger than me..
I kinda like her and I must admit that I do have some feelings for her..
We have topics to chat abt and I like chatting with her..
Shes in the same poly and same course as me..
Just that Ive graduated while shes currently in her 1st year..

If I tell her that I like her,

Result 1) She doesnt feel the same way as me..
(Its ok. We can still remains as colleague. But Im afraid that shell start to avoid me..)

Result 2) She feel the same way as me..
(Thats great cus I know that its not one-sided. But Im not ready for relationship..)

Shld I tell her??

M©+square SG

In red, does that answer your question?

btw, did you copy this from somewhere?

Cheers

killstyle SG

tell her b4 someone esle do. otherwise you’ll btich again in sgforums

lonestar86 SG

so that's a no??

no i didn't..

Lord Kang SG

Originally posted by lonestar86:

[b]so that's a no??

no i didn't..[/b]

u already said u are not ready for a relationship mah..So does that means no??

Eternal-fire SG

You want to go NS already, confess for what? Stop wasting her time and ur time lar.

lonestar86 SG

if u like someone and he/she feel the same way as u, it doesn't mean that u guys must be together right??
Ill be very content if I know that its not one-sided..

M©+square SG

Oh?

We'll see lah. Twisted Evil Mr. Green

Cheers

missqi SG

Ya lah.
Having bf in NS very sway one.
Mon to fri, no time, and feel very lonely one.
Sat spend one day tog, sun cant spend much time because gonna book-in.
Save her the agony.

lonestar86 SG

like what i've said..

if u like someone and he/she feel the same way as u, it doesn't mean that u guys must be together right??
Ill be very content if I know that its not one-sided..

Lord Kang SG

so what u going to do after knowing it is not one-sided??Let her hang there wondering what should be done next ah??

Ito_^ SG

imo.. no.

unless you are ready for a r/s, leave it be.

missqi SG

ya lah.
its like ur mother cook one big pot of shark's fin then let u smell and have a teaspoon of it, then throw the whole pot away.
tell her gum lan?

Patrik SG

Laughing

lonestar86 SG

seems like many of u r against the idea of telling her.. Rolling Eyes
but i'll regret my whole life if i dun tell her..

missqi SG

then u post this thread gum lan?
u want us to tell you to tell her right?
if u already have the answer in your heart, then why post this thread?
U want to tell her, then be a man and tell her.
If U don't know whether to tell her anot, heed our advice.
If U don't want to tell her, then shut up and be happy serving NS.
Gosh~```

Lord Kang SG

is not we are against the idea of u telling her..U want to tell then tell her..Most importantly is don't have any regrets in the future..

What we don't see eye to eye is that if she also likes you, but you don't do anything about it..What is the point of telling her??Like making her happy for nothing right??Wouldn't that make her feel even worst??

lonestar86 SG

relax..
u sounds like u r Mad at me..
i'm still considering whether to tell or not to tell..
i'm afraid that i can't control myself..
cant stop myself from telling her..

Lord Kang SG

nice way to describe..Making me hungry now..........

missqi SG

lol.
i come up with the weirdest analogies.
lol