Hi, came across this forum by chance and find that it is really
a very neat and nice one. Wondered if you all can help me with this
problem of mine
I am in my mid twenties this year and actually I broke off with my
boyfriend like 6 months back. All this while I still have feelings
for him but he just keep avoiding me.
Now the problem is as follows, I came to know another guy just a
few months back and we have like gone out for the past few weeks,
he seems to be a very nice guy and we seems to click off quite
well, the same frequency and such
BUT
he mentioned that he is someone who is does not want a relationship
that holds back the feelings, when I asked him what does he mean by
that he meant that he is more of a physical kind of person
I think I belong to the more conservative side of person so its
like he thinks that I am moving too slow while I think that he is
moving too fast, initially we said if that is the case, it would be
better to remain as friends but then somehow now it becomes a case
of 'go with the flow'
So now what should I do? Because it seems to be like its not really
a relationship as yet but he wants to have feelings and behaviour
like what a couple should do like hugs and kisses etc, I must admit
it is not really what I would normally do unless I am deeper into
the relationship, and yes, I do have a mutual attraction to him as
well.. so any adviceon this matter?
