Long story short, she introduced me to this guy long ago, in
which the following day she confessed to me she slept with him that
very night.
Today we are really close and all. And that whole incident still
riles me up easily. Like seriously easily, mere mention of his name
or anything to do with that night.
For my part, I've approached the problem at different angles
like:
1. We weren't together, so all was fair. She led her own
life.
2. She merely indulged in a night of carnal pleasure, didn't mean a
thing.
3. It's the past, what matters now is how I create a future
together with her.
But I find that it's no use, it still bothers me. We've talked
about it several times. She said she regretted the whole thing. She
said it sorta made her realize she had feelings for me. She even
said if it made me feel better she would stop talking to him. But
it still bothers me. Honestly, if that guy was her ex, it wouldn't
be an issue to me at all.
I post this to ask for your opinions and well, advice. I know what
I have with her is precious and I don't want this to be a problem.
Thanks.