Originally posted by MrFugue:
I assume that you are in your 20's and working.Therefore,the
boyfriend you have at your age should be of a good calibre to be a
husband.If he is vulgar and coarse with words now,there's no
guarentee that he'll stop using it in future.Who knows what the
future holds?
Assess him from this day onwards and drop hints that you are fed up
with it so that he'll catch the hint and understand why you are
annoyed with his attitude.Make arrangement for the debt to be
settled because 3k isn't a small amount at all if you want him to
pay up the money he owes you.
No, I have just passed my 19th
birthday. hais.. husband? I really don't even dare to think about
it. And I don't think dropping hints is an effective solution
because he already knows he's hurting me. Sometimes when I'm angry
or crying, he just tells me to "just go and be angry/sad all you
want, and don't irritate me anymore"...
Originally posted by gohkatkatoh
forgot to say this......most guys in singa have been through
army.....and in the army...they grill you with the words like fcuk
and all those crude languages.......so just listen ....but do not
take to heart.....
He's already been used to these
vulgarities even before army. But the problem is he used to abstain
from swearing and smoking in front of me. But somehow as time pass
he seems to think that he doesn't have to respect me anymore, doing
all that he likes without caring how I feel. But I really don't
understand why all these is happening, cuz i dare say I treat him
well. Should I say too well? I give in to all the arguments so that
he will not be unhappy anymore. When he's unhappy he always take me
for a punching bag, but when I'm unhappy I have to keep it inside
me and not show it. I feel that I don't have the right to show my
anger/sadness 
Originally posted by mistyblue
are you the sort who seek out this kind of bad boys. Then this is a
deep seated issue with yourself. You need to find out why you go
towards this kinds of guys.
Yes actually I think this is my
problem. Why do I always attract ah beng guys de? ppl say I look ah
lian. but i am not. and i don't speak vulgarities or broken eng all
dat. =( don't smoke don't club don't gamble.
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Originally posted by dcx
Cool down...go to the beach alone, look at the sea n sky, ask
yourself....Do you wan to lead on with this current relationship n
your life or shld you make a decision for yourself towards a life
which you seek for.....
I'm quite dependent on him, don't
go places on my own de... suddenly feel so lost, like a xiao meimei
in an adult world where I'm not supposed to be. and $3000 is alot
to me, its my life's hongbao money.
