hmm if you are refering to the ag
e i out in my profile, its fake, but anyway i'll
still think about what u've said.
somethings u've said are right. i see her as someone who is too
good for me to lose but i think i am more open to problems than
what u've said above. avoiding, no questions, no headache
acceptance is not me at all. she knows all about it, those things
that i am pleased or displeased with her because when things
happen, i'll talk to her.
that night when i started this thread, i think i am in a rather
pessimistic mood myself (probably due to her "coldness" that night.
its her mood swing that i am getting familiar to and learning to
accept.) so i logged on to seek some support i guess.
haha.. anyway, thats from my point of view. but i do thank you alot
because u make me think about my r/s which i hope to grow from it.
btw i am pisces and i my mood is often affected by hers. when she
is sad, i immediately feel a sense of melancholic in me. when she
is happy, my spirts will be proportionally lifted. that can
probably explain why i hate to see her cry 
i'll keep a note of what u guys have said and learn to be less
insecure, do things together etc etc. once again i thank all who
have replied.