i have two buddies who are very outspoken and those funny and
crazy types, suan-ing and laughing at the grils 24/7. But instead
of feeling unhappy
and irritated, those girls seem to enjoy it and even started to
take likings on
both of them.
As for me, i am those quiet quiet type of guy but can be real
talkative when i know the person more. Also, i really dont enjoy
laughing and suan-ing at people but this seems to be the reason why
i'm such a loner and do not have many female friends. (Zero CLOSE
females friends to be exact. Only those hi-bye ones)
I had tried changing and tuning my frequency to the same as them
but i felt really uncomfortable doing so and this is definately not
myself. It's such a torture doing so, laughing at people, kp them,
when you dont really mean it.
Ok. So lets say i cant change for the better( had already been
trying it for the past years) and does this mean i will be a loner
who is meant to be? What will happen to be 10 years down the road?
Will i still be the same, being a loner, still unattached, for the
rest of my life?
How true is the statement "Nan ren bu huai, Nu rei bu ai"?
I know teenage girls dont like homely and peaceful guys nowadays
while those wild and crazy types are more preferred.
Sincere advices needed, please.
