Originally posted by Ristar:
in my opinion, doing nothing about it by accepting your
fate, wait until u r old and get a gf who wants mature guys is
[b]totally nonsensical and not logical. at all.
why accept your lot when u r still alive and able to do something
about it?
why wait until u r old and get a ger who is screwed millions of
times by God knows how many guys, when she was younger?
knn, like that very unfair for you. your life is how long only? why
use used tissues when changing a bit of yourself can assure u the
chance to be the first to use it? very cold. but thats the way of
life. cold, cruel. practical.
u will have to change your state of mind to a talkative one (read
some NLP books, concentrate on anchoring and changing states), and then come up
with witty one liners to shoot those gers (and guys) back. they
will love u when u become funny and sarcastic. changing your looks
to a more fashionable one would be great too!
u will have to try to understand their point of view, pace them,
paraphrase them, then lead them into a topic that u like gradually.
learning about their astrology signs, a few magic tricks would do
wonders too.
the thing is, if u like a ger, u cannot act like u like her. once u
use of all the above techniques to reach the 'hook point' (ie to
say she doesnt want u to leave), the more u treat her like dirt,
the more she wants u. u wont even need to ask for her number. but
always watch it so u wont pass the limit and piss her off.
treat gers like your training ground, they like to flirt. so that
when u have found 'the ONE', u will be almost guaranteed to get
her. and when that happens, keeping your eye on her every single
second is going to freak her out so much she'd avoid u like a
plaque. but if u do all of the above mentioned things, that would
be the absolute last thing on earth u will do. so its ok.
lastly, its not enough to lead a girl. leading guys by being the
alpha male is the key. gers like to be led, why not be the
strongest of leaders?
now then, wat is your definition of an alpha male?[/b]
changing yourself into something you do not like is alpha male
meh?
