caught in between

last SG · 2006-06-19T17:22:36+00:00

here we offer advice, if he wanna follow advice, have to do at least some homework, prepare the andidote first before telling, must be able to come out with...

Doubser SG

hi guys, i’m attached but recently i got to know this girl frm my wrk place, worked with her for couple of weeks and she has been smsing me such as.. working had caused her to blah blah.. asking me wad am i doing.. often sms-ing me often. i felt she has feelings for me or am i tinking too much ?

ndmmxiaomayi SG

She’s probably interested in you, or just trying to flirt….

mhcampboy SG

Hmmm.... maybe you are thinking too much. I know some girls who tend to be over friendly. But hey, as much as u had typed. this is as much i could tell. Mr. Green

MosPyramid SG

Just ask her out and see screw her. If she allow you to do so, she is a loose woman just trying to kill her loniness, if you disallow but say not so fast, she like you and is decent type, if she slapped you, hopeless Rolling Eyes

Mr. Green

Deportivo SG

I think we should have a rule in the forum that whenever such topic arises,

PLEASE POST A PICTURE OF THE GIRL!

MosPyramid SG

Originally posted by Deportivo:
I think we should have a rule in the forum that whenever such topic arises,

[b]PLEASE POST A PICTURE OF THE GIRL![/b]

Lol, with the male one of course, to see if they matching or not.

I support this statement!!! Mr. Green

Doubser SG

yea. i do hpe im tinkin so much..trying to shorten all my conversation wif her but she juz kept finding topics to talk abt which made me hard to ignore her. well i dun really koe her so well. i treat everyone the same during work.. or did she took it tht im interested in her instead? Rolling Eyes

M©+square SG

By posting this thread title 'caught in between', does it mean you have slight interest in her as well? That explains how this question comes about?

I notice, you didn't ask how to let her know you're attached.
But rather, your question is veered towards questioning/confirmation if she likes you or not.
Your mode of question implicates on your motive.

Cheers

Doubser SG

yeayea. she knew im attached.. but still continues to contact me so often so much tht wont she ask whether my gf will be angry smth lidat.. and yes u're right.. im kind of attracted to her in a sense.. i duno y.. im feeling so Mad

casino_king SG

Normal, your feelings. Anybody will be attracted to people who likes them. It is human nature.

So the question is whether you treasure your relationship with your gf. Because if you fall seriously for this new ger than you you end up hurting somebody. Your life will not be peaceful. You will be troubled.

Since you are already in a relationship, You should stick with it unless the relationship is not working.

You decide. We can only advice you and if you make a mess of it, hahahaha... you come here, we are still here to help you sort it out!

On the other hand, you can just pretend like nothing is happening and just be friends with your colleague. Making sure that you do not date her and communicate with her outside working hours. Well, make a choice now and stick with it for better or worse.

FORGET-ME-NOT SG

You are attracted to her because she shows interest in you and somehow it flatter you. But think twice, are you willing to give up your present relationship for her. It is impossible to be double crossing and the consequence is no good. If you don't like her reject her firmly, ignore her sms, please spare a thought for your the other half. She may be upset by your action.

PS. fyi those third parties have a name and that is 'slut'. Maybe she is toying with your feeling. She can chased after you and so do other men.

ShrodingersCat SG

yaloh.. there is a difference between real liking and just gian.

keep talking to her abt ur gf.. i'm sure she gets the point eventually.

Praetorian111 SG

Actually you can take a step back and observe her behaviour.

Is she friendly to everyone in the company?
How do everyone think of her in the company?
Is she only friendly towards you?

If the answer is no, unfriendly and yes. probably she is.

Devil1976 SG

What she's thinking?

What you're thinking?

Which one matters more... Question

If you think you really can't handle it but wanna remain faithful to your partner, draw a CLEAR CUT LINE...

fudgester SG

The bottom line is, just continue treating her the same way you treat everyone else. And do talk to her about your girlfriend to make it clear to her that you're already happily attached to someone else.

That way, if she does end up becoming obsessive and try to come after you, you can be sure that you weren't leading her on and giving her the wrong signals.

It's normal to feel impressed to have someone chasing after you. Just remember that if you truly love your girlfriend, then it wouldn't do for you to chase this girl as well.

browniebaobao SG

i know of a fren.. his colleague smsed him stuff like whether he thinks she looks better with nude stockings or netted stockings.. always made excuses to askl him out.. and said there's a surprise for him in his drawer.. and it turned out to be a piece of paper with a 'kiss'.. Wahahahaha kinky! Laughing

BrUtUs SG

best not to be too overconfident of yourself, walk to toilet n take a piss first.... Laughing she might be friendly...

weijian SG

you may have feelings for her, but you may want to clarify and find out by getting to understand yourself more..

do you like your gf more

or do you like ur female fren more

from ur post, i presume its that you like your gf more..

since she is trying to know you better..

you also have to at least understand what she is thinking...

perhaps you can try talking to your gf on this matter, let her know first, don't keep your gf in the dark, it will not help, but make things worse if she finds out through her friends etc..

when you tell your gf bout this, be prepared to see her face turn sour or black, have something there to save the situation if you know the make her smile and trust you even more..

M©+square SG

Ohhh.....i wouldn't advice that if i'm you.

Threadstarter might end up with knotty Question and Answer session.

weijian SG

why not?

if you love a gal, you shouldn't hide it from her right??

at least your being trueful..

even if she break up, or angry, next time when she thinks back, she will then know who is really true to her..

those gals who are looking for husbands perhaps know what i mean..

being honest and being true to each other.