is it me.. or what? lengthy

last SG · 2006-06-13T23:51:58+00:00

well, firstly, thanks for reading my long long post. 1 well, im pretty messed up now.. so i cant say for sure, which i know is pretty bad. but.. i feel happ...

BrUtUs SG

long story u got...
but back to ur problems, ever heard of 'never go back eat grass behind u'?
since u make so much attenpts at this relationship wif so much problems y even look back....? yes u might miss the 'actions' but seriously its jz not worth it... since now u got a guy who pampers u n let u hv ur way, y not make good of it n pampers him back instead of ur pass... somethings jz meant to be let behind n this 'nice' memory should be left behind while u make progress... dun make a ur current bf sad n cherish him while he is here to give u all... wake up from the dreams of yesterday!

nanren4ever SG

u remind me of my ex-gf. One of the reason she broke up with me was because our relationship was going on too smoothly. We never quarreled at all during our 3 months relationship and found it boring, because her ex and her quarrel quite frequent.

Quarrels in a relationship is healthy, but too much of it is an overkill.u say ur bf always give in to u, and that u 2 seldom, if ever quarrel? what's wrong with that? Would u rather be in a relationship where everyday u 2 quarrel, then go home cry cry cry, or rather be in one that has fewer ripples, and is quite smooth-sailing. U may be the adveturous type, and go with the former, but is that really the best for u in the long run?

Learn to treasure ur bf. Do not treat him as a substitute for someone else, someone who in the 1st place shouldn't be with u. Someone who, according to u, is a flirt. U know that he is a flirt, and u entered into that relationship. Both of u got hurt, and now, u are with someone else. Do u think its fair for the other guy? that u keep on being with him, and yet think of someone else?

Remember, do not do upon others what u do not want others to do upon u. Think from other people's perspective, and then u will realise its probably time to let go

OO_OO_OO SG

wait....

so u're saying that the quarells broke up the relationship??

It is not the quarell that strengthens the relationship. it is the patching up after the quarells that gives all the fond memories and cements the relationship.

but if ur relationship is unable to handle all of those, then i dont think he is the guy for you.

as for your new bf, u might think he's boring because u guys dont quarell. if i'm not wrong, you've been purposely doing things against his wishes and stuff so as to agitate him and initiate an argument. ie. you want him to argue with you. try this. instead of him always giving in to you, you give in to all of his requests (:

OO_OO_OO SG

oh by the way.. that was really a long post...

thank goodness u paragraphed it. heh

t-aDvice SG

To Sun Pastilles~~~

Firstly..
I would like to say...

Fuck him & get over it.
Move on.

If he reads this,, he's so gonna smirk & laugh at you. He want you to lose, & you just did.

I can't be bothered reading other peopl's posts.

But i'm sure u WILL value mine.

Listen up now...

Firstly, Devil is a good adviser.
I salute that.

But sun pastilles,
One do NOT seek advices from the forums.
We come here for RE-ASSURANCE.

If we have a problem that's what i AM for.
Please value me for who i am.
I'm sure i hold a more sturdy place in your heart than most of others.

HOW CAN ANY ONE PASSER BY,,
ANYONE WHO DEOSN'T KNOW YOU..

give you advices???

How can they give you advices?

You are you.
You have your own unique way of doing things.

So, please be yourself.

And i'm sure.. At the very least,, talk to me.

On top of this,, i just wanna ask,

Are you with your boyfriend now because???

If you find that it's unfair for him, that is the feeling of uncertainty.
& that's one of the major problems which happens to couples nowadays...
You read my blogs, right?

Then, good.

Personally, i feel that you should give relationship a rest first.
Hey,, take me for example?
How long was my previous relationship?
HAA.

If your ex is a gold, i'm sure i'm 101% 9999999 carat-ed diamond.
Loves you.

~~~

Devil1976 SG

...... Hmm... Cool

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