if you feel kind of out of place when your frenz care more on
their family more then friends. then try to get into their
perspective.
go for cooking classes, there the people are like minded singles,
at least some of them, but most will be aunties, unless you take up
those a bit high standard cooking class, then you will get to meet
more females around your age.
from there, then roughly you will slowly get to understand why your
friends cancel their appts last min or so, if you can't beat them, join them!
