this feeling sucks

crimson soldier SG

trying to woo a girl who probably doesn't even know im trying to woo her

a r/s that starts off as platonic friendship is hard to upgrade Sad

does she think i ask her out so much because im bored gah
does she think im just another friend

FireIce SG

actually starting off as platonic is good.....
slow and steady.......
dun have to think too much.......jus go with the flow........

Pitot SG

Yep. Just go with the flow. If both of you feel right. Then its time to progress.. if she feels ur not the one. Be contented that she still accepts u as a friend.

crimson soldier SG

eh I think she DOESN"T know that i want to woo her leh. Cos we friends for 2 years le so it's quite hard for me to make a move when she's so oblivious

im wrecking my brain trying to think of ways to hint at her

R3SsH|n SG

yea it sucks…

Pitot SG

hint for what.. if u wan just tell lor.. my style.. Sit down with her and slowly talk about it.

FireIce SG

maybe she is happy this way
so dun spoil it......

Pitot SG

but if he never try.. he wont know how she feels..
Perhaps she is happy. Perhaps she is also interested in him...

R3SsH|n SG

Mad
i see this thread oso sian 1/2...
Mad

crimson soldier SG

i think very long le

rather risk the friendship than forever be onyl friends

An4 lian4 nan2, shi4 ai4 geng4 nan2
(secretly admiring someone is hard, confessing my feelings is even harder)

R3SsH|n SG

its better to love and leave than to never love at all...

Pitot SG

u never know if it can succeed. try man try. Wink

Ito_^ SG

x2

"its better to love and leave than to never love at all" is for one person's gratification, not both.

bloom SG

on the other hand... maybe she also has feelings, but juz that u didnt say out so she juz act like a friend leh...

frm a female point of view: if u everytime ask her out n she nv reject u... thk u got chance... u think she dont have better things to do meh?

then again abt spoiling the frenship... who says even if u confess ur feelings liao, u 2 still cant be frens?

lonestar86 SG

Agree with this..
But thats a risk..
Cus if shes not interested in u, shell start to avoid u..
Yes, u guys can remains as friends but aft ur confession, ur friendship with her is no longer the same as b4..
Its gd to try, but u gonna take the risk..
Its all or nothing..

lonestar86 SG

Wanna follow up..

Im not sure if its true for u guys..
But Im like tt..
There was once when a gal tried to hint me..
But Im not interested in her..
Although I still treat her as my friend, Ive started to avoid her as much as possible..

syncopation_music SG

hallow Smile

think you have to know here better

did u date her out ?

bring her for candlelight dinner

go watch movie with her

try to establish a communicatiion with her .man

i think u can do that Smile

Devil1976 SG

Hmm... Cool

mistyblue SG

look at the other fellow... he got blocked.. Laughing At least you're her friend Razz Very Happy

browniebaobao SG

I understand how you feel...

but if u really like her and u dun act fast, u might regret if she falls for another.