How come some gals are so tao?

Marco_Simone SG

I asked this gal out in my neighbourhood.She is friend's friend.She said she's kinda occupied on weekdays and weekends which means you know la...

She's not like a knock out babe or anything.She is merely average (of coz would look good with makeup),just that she is tall.And not as if I am fat and disgusting...

CoolMyth SG

She's scared of you mah. Laughing

Seriously, these kind of gals hor, must go slowly. Dun be so eager or you'll scare her away.

Either that or she definitely is not interested in knowing you.

Marco_Simone SG

I never pester her or what what. I just dropped her a msg in Friendster asking her if got time can go lim kopi together since we stay nearby.

Wah lao,seems like she is not even interested in me as a friend...

ch0i SG

u start start ask kopi aready ar ?
u damn bullet train liao
no nid so fast
man man lai
1st ask her, sms her or wad bout life
bout homework or bout anything lah
dun ask out yet
after few months or weeks than ask
liddat more effective u noe
and proven aso

SGpork SG

Rolling Eyes

Patrik SG

Hang up sell mah...since got buyers.
Tsk tsk tsk

ditzy SG

Don't stereotype, some guys are so tao also. Laughing

ShrodingersCat SG

dont be so thinned skin lah
reject you once only u say tao liao

NewAge SG

so what do u mean is she tao or gao?

FireIce SG

im the Dao Queen of sgforums

i not chio, i no big boobs, i wear nerdy specs

im jus dao leh, cannot meh

KenPlus SG

aiya if the gals is interested in u as a friend or something then surely not dao one lah,it takes two hands to clap,or maybe she is just shy or something.
And i think dao or not does not really link with looks loh.

FireIce SG

yeah, im shy Embarassed

rainee SG

means like girls got no choice like dat leh...if dun go out with you means she dao...can't she have her freedom to reject you? Rolling Eyes Imagine if 10 guys asked her out on the same day she has to agree to all of them just so dat she wun be branded as tao? Confused

HolySniper SG

Laughing

KenPlus SG

I think gers abit dao or shy better leh.
I mean if she willing to go out with me when i just know her,don't u have the impression that she will go out easily with other guys too?
And the more dao the gers are,the more it will make me want to ask her out LOL.

M©+square SG

I think you're not thinking when you post this thread.

Let's say there's a insurance agent asked you for a drink, but you're occupied on 24/7.

Are you obligated to join her for coffee? Maybe...
Then you have to consider is the time worth spending.
Then you have to think about the piorities.

Likewise, to this friend's friend, you're a stranger. High defence state.
She is not obligated to accept your invitation...to be crude is. She's not dao - shes just not interested.
Yes, she's not interested in you.
So she won't want to waste her time drinking coffee with someone when she could spend her time doing something fruitful/meaningful.
(to some people, they find watching K-drama vcds more joy than to meet up with strangers like you. No offence.) It's a general remark.

Like i've mentioned...it's crude. But it's true.

Idea It's not that she's dao. She's just not interested.

pwnz0r SG

Exactly, she’s not proud or arrogant, just not interested.

donchoo SG

Let me give you a sure win method. Laughing

In brief, the Blitzkrieg strategy included the following features:

1 -Combine land and air assaults to maximise destruction to enemy positions.

2 -Use paratroopers to secure important positions behind enemy lines.

3 -Strike fortifications hard and decisively with artillery, air raids or paratrooper assaults: whichever is most appropriate to the location.

4 -Strike quickly and decisively on land using mechanised divisions.

5 -Support mechanised assault with close air support from fighter bombers.

6 -Draw enemy attention to areas through feigning assaults in areas: thus reducing resistance in the primary intended area of assault.

7 -Assaults to work in pincer movements, encircling enemy forces and forcing subjugation due to lack of supplies.

Your kopi invitation only used point 4. tsk tsk tsk

bubbles_pure SG

If a guy were to ask me this way, I’ll not go out too. Cause I don’t know the oppsite party and am occupied already.

spencer99 SG

From the above... you sound very arrogant.

The gals is under no obligation to go out with you. And it doesn't mean that a lady is "not" a "babe" she "must" go out with you.

So if she is a "babe" she has right to "choose"??

Maybe she is not into you.... maybe there is some part of u that turn her off.... just live with it.....

there are so many gals out there....

But do change ur attitude, if not u will not get any gals.