Have I failed as a boyfriend?

dragoncat SG

Same sentiments. Need a lot of patience and love to accomodate that. Sigh...

alexkusu SG

then if u give alot of patience & love..they say they dun wan sticky or over loving bf (wen in 1st place, they wanted it).

Devil1976 SG

True. Somehow I feel there's really not too big a 'wrong' with your assumptions... I mean... You've got your points too... Sometimes things jsut don't work out or happen the way we expect or thought it would be... Cheer up and don't be too hard on yourself....

I feel it'll be nice if you were around... Then again you'll need to balance between your work and personal life...?

Master -_- SG

put urself in her shoes la Mr. Green

zeny SG

poor bro we have been working hard day and nite for our jobs in order to by food and gifts for our gfs..

as good guys we try our best for gf but is always never enough.

wonder why do girls always have to order the good guys around.

Have you ever seen the bad guys?
they need not do anything but the girls treat them as kings....

So sick and tired of this dumb treatment...

choco B SG

On regular days, I'd say, don't let a girl toy with you or push you around unreasonably.
But since this is a special occassion (falling v sick), I think it's OK to indulge abit after all if you don't shower love & concern on her now, then who or when?
(Above typed applicable for both genders.)

Gwangetto SG

hmm.. i think you should show more concern for her in future. and don't forget to keep communicating. because if u stop communicating with her, the r/s will suffocate.

you are having a partner, not a pet.

in this case, u might as well go and get a dog.

M©+square SG

It's non habitual.
threadstarter have explained the measures he took and admitted the fact that he overlooked the details.

Spare him the 'pet' talk?

Yunhaier SG

On the bright, as least you are reflecting.

If you think it isn't enough, then give more next time.

P.S: Sometimes, you give more, sometimes you give less, but ultimately, you must care enough to even think about it - know what I mean? Idea

Cheers

CannyOng SG

Take a leave and acc her to see a doctor(if possible) is the best! Gals always like to have their man beside them when they r sick! Btw,she don’t often sick,right?

Marco_Simone SG

I missed a test in my uni to bring my ex to see a doc.

After the doc attended to her,I asked the doc to give me MC also.He very understanding and gave me also. Very Happy

kaobeikaobu SG

pm me the lobang leh.. Laughing

Fey Mae SG

i think she too demanding la. o.o sick see doc lor. why must have everyone act like ur so important like dis.

Shocked

Forever84 SG

couldn’t u go down during lunchtime?

dragoncat SG

Thanks for the advice. The storm is over liao!

ghimpheng SG

try calling her instead of sms......I personally hate sms too

kaobeikaobu SG

couple sure have quarrels one lah...can understand urself and her more mah...go take leave then make porridge for her and tell her stories by her bedside lah... Laughing

dragoncat SG

Actually she is understanding. Just that during that time she is not feeling well and get a bit emotional.

storywolf SG

food poisoning if vomit a few times and is weak , then is very dangerous and painful, you should just bring her to see doctor as these are emergency cases. People can die from serious food poisoning !!!

You should have bring her to hospital or there is a lot of 24 hr clinics also if you bother to put in effect to find, or hop on any taxi they will know where the 24 hr clinic is.

shrekho SG

Hi.

I would like to borrow topic.. Sorry about that.

I suffered the same thing as you do. MY GF will complain only AFTER the whole event.

I really really do not understand woman.

If you are sick, go see a doctor.

Does my companion with you to the doctor enhance anything? NO!
Neither am I medicine. Looking at me or with me around does not make the illness go away! Medicine DO!

We are working people, engineers, marketers, bankers etc,
who mostly are (8am - 5pm or more) in time constraint, weekdays.

WE visit immediately after work, to find out how you are etc, and only to find out that the visit has been done. The blame starts rolling.

"How come you are not here for me, you don't love me anymore? "
"How come you don't show concern? Maybe when I die then you will show! "
"You can at least SMS to ask ,right? "

My god... The only thing I can do is keep quiet when the fireballs are hurled, and keep asking her how is she etc.. Want to eat anything, I go buy etc. When she recovers, that hurling never happened. The vicious cycle starts again when she
falls sick.

Hai...

Sorry for the rants. Thanks for reading.

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