I don't hv all these problem with my parents but let me try to
understand :
if we happen to go out for a short while, they will ask: why u all
everytime go out?
Depends on who u go with, maybe when they say
this were those times u go out with someone they don't want u to go
with?? or u went out too late?
then if we kept staying at home, they will ask us to go out get
some sunlight or go for the sales in town.
[color=#444444]maye it was day time that they want u go out
and since u had been home the whole
morning?[/color]
if we happen to help out in the household chores, they'll say no
need, they'll do.
well u
are lucky.... 
but if we dun do household chores, they'll nag at us for being
lazy.
cos
u didn't clean up after you had your meal or etc...more related to
your own stuff??
if we read books, they think we are guai.
if we dun read books, they think we r bad.
These
are natural reaction bah....most parents like their children to be
reading cos its good mah.....
i come back show black face and feel depressed at times, my parents
will ask y and kept probing and probing. in fact, i would like to
be alone and told them so, they black face at me say that i dun
wanna share. but seriously, i dun even feel like talking about my
problems just yet.. just wanna be alone for some time also got
problem ah?
then because of this, they nag and nag and nag and nag and nag.....
then make until i very buey song then thy started yelling.
umm
they have not realized their baby has grown
up....kidding....seriously not all parents realize that everyone
need their space....they are just too concern so look on the
positive side bah....u know when u in trouble they will be there
for u.....
its only thru reading i learnt even for a toddler, u hv to give
them some space for their moodiness....its not easy being a
parent....
even if u hv no intention to be one....well maybe u can be like
Heng..find ways to 'educate' them on understanding your needs
parents and children's relationship is a two way, not one way
'traffic'
