i don't remember speaking to u ever
but let me tell u this. it doesn't matter if im guy, girl,
straight, bi, gay, alien, black, white, red, yellow.
The point is, if u'e saying what u feel, then nobody is going to
care if u say THAT girl u irritated is petty. But u made a sweeping
generalisation about "why GIRLS are so petty" based on one
incident. That is just wrong. The fact is that people react in many
different ways. U don't expect everyone to be as easygoing as other
people do u? There are going to be some people, guy and girl alike,
who can be very petty. Thats the nature of human diversity in
personality. Now thats something u HAVE to see. Asking why that
girl u offended is pointless. Its just the way she is, just like u
can't help the way u are anymore than she can. Once u see that, I
only hope u think about how potentially offensive something u want
to say might be to others. If u don't want to think about it, then
don't let it bother u that u've offended someone u know. Thats
human nature, and u can't do anything about it.
Thats all i have to tell u about the matter. If u still can't get
it, theres nothing else can do to help. But u can speculate as much
as u want about my gender, im used to it anways. People in forums
eat full nothing better to do one. 
don't bother asking me either. its something that
takes a deep level of intellect to understand, and from the posts
made by most of the people here, i doubt u'd be able to understand
the associated concepts.
