Originally posted by Isis:
I'm a straightforward person. In group dynamics, i seldom
do the little talk or bootlick but either am i too serious. Im just
too focus on my job. Never impose my ideas on others and either do
i think im superior... in any ways
People think i dao cos i never try to make an attempt to " Gum "
with them but im the kind that need time to warm up to and the type
that feel comfortable with certain type of pple.. then can click...
ok maybe pple misunderstand me easily.
....
i got 1 week of lesson + project this week
Tues: didnt go lessons but they forget to allocate things for me to
do. So @ nite, i ask them anyone need help. This guy [b]A
supposed to allocate stuffs to me but he say dun need my help. K
find. but i did help some one @ 2am to research.
wed: im piss with the way some pple treat me..
for ex, i skip afternoon lesson just to do FYP yesterday so that i
can do project discussion in the evening( instead doing FYP ),
expect them to call me or just sms to tell me that they are doing
project but they didnt.. Someone frm my grp told me that Same guy
A will call me when they are dong project but he
didnt...
Thur: Today, there guy again didnt include me in the project. i m
farking piss wiht him. Ordering mac for lunch so can do research.
cos i was late and so sit not near with them but they didn't ask me
wana order mac.. so now im typing this to vent anger.. cos i feele
excluded
There Guy A didnt go for lessons for 3 days..
though he redeem himself in the some parts of the projects.. im
just piss with how he do things...
[/b]
Seriously... I really don't quite get parts of your
post...
Anyway... From the impression of your post.. I think you really
should at least maintain a certain level of communication with your
project mates... It's not just about 'gum' or not comfortable...
It's MINIMUM JOB REQUIREMENT... If you work in a GROUP, MINIMUM
COMMUNICATIONS MUST be there... Are you a MALE? If you are and have
already SERVED your NS, you should easily understand what I
mean....
The part where ya skipped your afternoon lesson to do your FYP...
Did you expect them to do the project at the same time while you're
doing your FYP...? (This part I can't quite understand from your
post...) From what I see, you might see yourself as doing a
'sacrifice' for the team... But they might not be thinking the same
way? That they could be doing the project while you're
not...?
Another thing... Never quite mind if they didn't call you or
anything... From what I see, you've already got a communication
problem going on with them... And such communication break down
usually goes both ways... With that kinda communication going on,
the MacDonald's thingy shouldn't have came as a surprise at
all...?
You can go ahead and BLAME the whole team.. But my personal advice
for you is not to make yourself a 'public enemy'... Otherwise it
would just be so simple... May it be guy 'A', 'B', 'C' or 'D'....
Any of them who's not on good terms with you can easily get you
into enough trouble....
Btw, what is the 'lesson' for..? For your project...? Would your
replacement of your lesson with FYP caused a bad impression on
them?
