Bro!!! I'm Aquarius also! I nvr believed in Zodiac signs but I
can see alot of similarities between u n me in my younger years.
Maybe its just luck that I read such an interesting post and find
my 'younger' me posting. haha..
Anyway young man, take heart! I wun provide you with advice like
what 90% of the people here will say. I will tell you what 1% of
the people will say or are doing but nvr say at all. What you
choose to do is up to you, but I believe that with such hunger and
passion in a warp way, you'll succeed well. Do know that doing the
same as 90% of the population will make u end up like 90% of the
world - the average joe. Not that there's anything wrong about
that, but it's up to personal choice. Anyway, the focus is on
you.
I sense great disturbance and instability in you. You can get to
the root of this problem in 2 ways like what Yunhaier has said: Be
the nice person or be a fucked up person. Well, I give you the 3rd
choice, focus on something greater. I dun mean religion, but
something just greater.
You have 2 issues here
1) Women
2) Money and power goals
Women
Many men make the mistake or we all have made the mistake of
focusing on 1 one girl. Please don't do that. She's not even your
wife or serious girlfriend who has sacrificed much for you. What
you are actually doing is putting the pussy on a pedestal. Or in
slang words, you have suffered the curse of the one-itis. Go google
n see what it means 
But anyway, I'm glad it's over. But really, such animosity is not
needed. Such feelings of grudges or anger will only eat you up
inside. You must have a confident and very positive outlook in
life. Young man, there are 6 billion pple in the world. let's say 3
billion women, let's say 2.5million women.. let's say 500,000 women
whom you are eligible to chase. And you are bearing a grudge over 1
woman? I hope she's damn hot and so seductive or damn charmer man.
Coz I wun give such a woman these days such attention if it's not
reciprocated. Anyway it's only 1 girl. There are definitely plenty
others out there.
Believe me when I say i was alot like you during my younger years.
But really, love is a numbers game. Never chase 1 girl at 1 time,
you lose focus of the bigger picture and you get too emotionally
attached. Unhealthy. It's pretty much like investing and sales, you
dun depend your success on only 1 entity. Young man, you must go n
meet more women out there. Keep an open mind, if you got chance,
ask one of your older frens, bring you to see geylang and open
eyes. You'll be surprised and open your mind immediately that hey,
you are over-reacting when it comes to women. Sad to say, and still
the truth, we men still run the world. So pls act like you are the
alpha male and be proud of who you are.
Money and
Power
There's nothing wrong with your goals. I'll tell you that it's
healthy and good. In fact, you are embracing a man's natural
affinity for power. Remember, doing wat 90% of the rest of the pple
do will only give you the same results as 90% of the pple. No one
aims to be poor but 80% of the world will only control 20% of the
world's wealth. Most will be struggling financially, living from
paycheck to paycheck, some living on handouts and only the minority
few will enjoy immense wealth. At 17 yrs old to have such
thinking.. good! But thoughts without plans and actions is useless.
Are you working now or studying still? Ifyou are studying, continue
to study hard, read mroe business and self-improvement books on how
to achieve more.
When you are rich, you'll definitely have power and women will
come, dun worry. Your problem then is worrying about quality of
women. Now you have to worry about quantity and quality. Why not
focus your attention on improving yourself? Remember I talked about
focusing on a bigger picture in life? Focus on your
career/dream/idea. Go to bed each nite thinking how you have
improved, wake up each morning wondering how you can improve for
the day. Everything starts in small steps my young man.
Money is not evil. Money is everything. Everything - happiness,
joy, security, freedom.. They all lie on the foundation of being
financially secure. I dare anyone to reject my point by thinking
about whether they still got time to thinking about posting on
SGforums if their stomachs r empty, bills to pay, debts to settle
etc. Money is the root of everything you see in life. But it's a
merely a tool. Respect it and harness its power, in turn, you'll be
rewarded immensely.
Remeber, no one dreams to be poor yet 80% will nvr be rich in their
life. What would you do now? I admit I carry very strong, extremist
views of my personal life but that's because I'm one who goes all
out to achieve what I want and desire in life. I am willing to take
time to post this as I see alot of myself in this post during my
younger years. Back then I didn't have anyone to show me how I
should embrace my destiny. I struggled thru life by myself and had
to figure out my lifes journey and direction by myself. I'm very
happy I made such choices and take each day with such hunger and
passion to achieve more.
You can either think hard about what I say, or follow others, or
find your own path. But hey, remember, doing what 90% of the rest
of the pple do will give you the same results which 90% of the pple
attain - The average joe. Nothing wrong. But it's a personal
choice. You choose now.
All the best.
