Hi , I have a situation here.But I am not sure whether my
actions are correct. Here goes
Last week , I applied for exam leave. Since mid-april i wanted to
quit my current job as I realised my dad is sick and I want to
spend time with him. But because I love my company and my job , so
I stayed
As I doing a part time studies as well. I juggle between my work
and studies. Work load start to increase and I still went on.
All the while my management keep wanting me to quit my studies and
commit full time but I could not see the reason why as I am doing
my studies out of working hours and only twice a week.
Until one fine day , my management want me to quit my studies the
fourth time and I felt my company don't care about my future.And I
quit , saying i need a break.
But a few days later , i got another offer and I took it after they
are more willing to accept my time schedule. And my management said
Im not honest since my quitting reasons do not tally.
Am disappointed.
To add on , I believe I am well taken care of in the new job and my
responsibilities are shared. And I want this kind of arrangement so
that I can do my own things in peace whenever I am on leave without
worrying anything in my job since someone is taking care of.
But for my current job , I worry a lot for the company as I am the
MAIN GUY in the job. But i feel I am being taken for granted.
Because I worry so much for them , they think all is allrite and
just hope the whole project ends without additional
resources/labour spent.
I think I am just plain too loyal. But when my management said I
was did-honest when my reasons for quitting differs .I just felt I
need to explain but I know they will stiill say the same thing to
sound like Im the one at fault.