hi sweetevil,
5 1/2yrs together is reali long, i undstd ur feeling, i had a 6+
yrs relationship b4 we broke up...
the best solution is that u n ur bf stay commited in the
relationship u both r sharing nw. b it long or short-distance
relation, a relationship needs sincere commitments from both
parties.
i hav a couple-friends who both din manage to "physically" b wif
each other thru-out their 4+yrs of courtship due to army, work n
overseas studies. they only manage to meet up twice the most a yr
when 1 of them flew over to accompany the other for a short period.
but nw they r getting married nxt yr after the guy completes his
studies.
im very hapi for them. n i tink they both r a very good example of
how impt commitments can b even thou its a long-distance
relationship.
so sweetevil, i sincerely hope u n ur bf can overcome tis by
staying commited to each other.
jia you woh! best of luck! 
