Is it okay to still have pictures of your ex?

missqi SG

Is it okay to still have pictures of your ex?
As in in phone, computer, etc.
I don't like it.
=(
LOL.
And I delete all remnants of past relationships.

Devil1976 SG

Ok what… I do have..

^spidee^ SG

I kept some, threw some..

Gwangetto SG

i do keep it though.. brings back memories but ok wad, it wun kill me.

it's ok as long as u r not that sentimental sort. Cool

missqi SG

I don't like.
=(
When you're with someone else.
Like you can't let go.
Sigh.
sad.

missqi SG

Oh.
I'm super duper fuber sentimental.
LOL.
I cried when Ethan(M:I:3) married impromtu in the hospital with the stupid ring.
LOL.
Perturbs me, the photos, that is.
LOL.

Gwangetto SG

then what r u waiting for? throw them away la.

missqi SG

Not me lah.
I wipe out all traces.
My other half does.
LOL.

Gwangetto SG

oops.. din see properly. haha.. Laughing

but then many men are like that. although it is their ex, they'd still have feelings left inside, even if much of it is gone.

but females r not like men. if they're attracted, they r attracted and will stay true. but once they're out, they're out.

^spidee^ SG

so true..

missqi SG

I so hate it.
And childish me wishes for the whatever-you-call-it that Will Smith has in MIB.

SGpork SG

nth wrong what to keep..

Wink Wink Wink

^spidee^ SG

that memory-erasing thingee?

missqi SG

YES!!!!!!
something-something-liser.
I GOT IT!!!!!!!
THE NEURALISER!
=)
yeah, that.
How nice eh.

^spidee^ SG

yea, but abit sad at the same time..

missqi SG

Memories are memories, but we can generate new ones.
And live for the future instead of the past.
Unlike me, always stuck in a rut.
Pestered by the ex though and all that sheat.
-.^
**shrugs
=(

^spidee^ SG

that makes sense..
your ex pestering you?

CannyOng SG

I think whether to keep yr ex photo or not must also depend on the reason of the break-up! If yr ex cheat u,being unfaithful,hurt u by beating u up,being super possesive,always threaten u this and that. Then I think it is something wrong of u to keep yr ex photo who u still have a fond memories of him or her?

But in another way round,if u break becos of parent objection,misunderstanding and damaging reason but he/she treat u super good during yr r/s period. I personally think keeping of ex photo to remind of the past memories is valid!

missqi SG

Yeah.
Sad.
While I've been with my current boy for bout 4 months.
Not to mention my boy keeps pictures of his ex too.
LOL.
I like to make clean breaks.

^spidee^ SG

yep. breaking up because of the latter sucks..