Originally posted by winterrealm:
ermmm I still dont GET it. becoz i went for a Facial Wash yesterday
n i was serve by a lady. ended up discussing abt relationship, so i
might as well pull out my topic. after what i said, she told me
that she have a friend who actually was like my current
relationship.And is already married, i asked her r u sure? she
extra-double confirm that "Biao" can be together but not
"Tang".
the reason why i asked so much is because i want to gain alot of
RIGHT ANSWER to able to defeat her parents of letting me to be with
her without any doubts.Even though my dad encourage me. But still,
i need to do alot of Research!I dont want to fail them by giving
wrong answer - becoz of ONLY loving her n juz "aiya heck-care
situation" to be together.
I hope u guys can provide me the Right Answer which 100% confirm n
not your thoughts.Got any laywers or doctors friends, please help
me ask about it.
And pls dont give unncessary comments e.g Forepay and throw her
lah,rape her ..etc
Thanks n i will really appreciate it 
-my dad and her Mom[b]Same Surname
-Me and her Diff Surname[/b]
Not the same surname is good.
You have only a few worries that I can think of.
1. People disapprove due to superstitions and upbringing and
sometimes just pure stupidity. Many people like that. So it is up
to you whether you are strong and am able to ignore them or you
will feel down everytime they make nasty comments. Your girl also,
can she take it?
2. Genetics. Like I said, if somebody mention that you can say no
problem, we will go for genetic counselling everytime she is
pregnant. Then nobody can hit you on that score.
actually that is all... I can't think of another oh wait...
3. If the 2 of you break up then it might affect your extended
family... your parents become in laws as well as brother and
sister... even if you divorce, the relationships does not stop like
when other people divorce.
4. You might make your relatives womit if they see the 2 of you
intimate unlike when they see you intimate with a stranger (non
relative.) That will not make them womit. It is like you see a
brother and sister kissing passionately it makes you want to womit
but if they were kissing other people, you won't.
