well look at it like this IF a gal is in a group of guys, most
of the time the guys get into heated discussions about soccer, army
and what not.... do you think a gal have much to say in these
topics?
so if You are the gal, you can try changing the subject, voice
out...
so now you are a guy and u are trying to be 'noticed', one thing
for sure, keeping quiet is not going to help... listen to what they
are talking about, add in little comments, change the subject if
need be, but make sure u join in the chats...
BE HERE!
A lot of times when we are in a group there'll be a few ppl who
just keep quiet, they'll be sitting there, immersed in their own
monologues in their own head, wondering what they'll do tomorrow,
etc. Well, do you think ppl will find these ppl noticeable? so when
you are here, BE HERE mentally too. don't be doing things that
exclude others, like listening to your mp3 player, sms-ing a
friend...etc.
so bottom line is. chat. listen. talk. joke. Be there physically
and mentally
if not you'll find that after that outing is over, when ppl are
thinking back, they'll be like "A, B, C, D, and E were there, and
there's one more guy....... but for the life of me I can't remember
who it was" that'll be u.
