Basically, if you set out to hook a mermaid, and you finally catch
one, you'd better not hiam that the mermaid smells fishy, cause
that's what you wanted in the first place! 
Men who complain those things you mentioned, are probably those who
'aim too high' or 'aim wrongly'. That is, to put it in another way,
they don't look at themselves in the mirror and note their
shortcomings, and they insist on getting the 'prettiest', the
'best', etc. Basically, if you step out of
your league and then cannot meet the expectations, well, too bad!
Ai pee, and ai chee... if you step into a 5-star restaurant and
want to feast on haute cuisine, be prepared to foot the bill!
