She's / He's attached

last SG · 2006-05-08T11:04:26+00:00

Be prepare to b flung like a rag

hypercurry SG

Recently i had a couple of friends who are interested in girls who are already attached to bfs for like 2 years or so... Some times it's the girl who make the initiative to know my friend.
Im just wondering what are the chances of them succeeding in winning the girls over. Does a rocky, insecure relationship result in a easier target for third parties? Anybody with any similar experiences care to share? I presume there are more people who failed than those who succeed... Please share your experiences. Girls, please shed some light for us guys as well. Thanks Smile

mamamamama SG

If the relationship is unstable, yes.

If it's not, then no.

One more thing.. people who play the role of the "third-party" deserves to be slapped on their faces.. and make it a tight one Mr. Green

sacredspirits SG

err..... i personally dun like complicated things.... so, just 2 is enough in a relationship.... 3's a crowd.... Smile

hypercurry SG

It appears that when the third party tries to make a move on the attached person, he/she end up having more to lose. The third party is always there to pick up the broken pieces.

Sakuraflower SG

I think that girl like companion and people who share sweert memory with them. They like to make friends. Depend how close u are to the girl. There sure got chance one cause may find u interesting.

Got chance one!

Patrik SG

Wah gua chia ah?
Come from behind?

hypercurry SG

I think if you’re too close with the girl, you’ll end up as the spare tire friend. She’ll only come to u when she got probs/ quarrels with her guy.

beavan SG

yes yes,but most people do not mind just being spare tire friends..at least it's better than not friends at all

browniebaobao SG

the girl could be juz friendly and sociable.

If she's happily attached, it's quite impossible to win her heart.

Devil1976 SG

A friend is a friend, spare tire or not.

Pitot SG

Do not do something to someone which you don’t want done to yourself.

alexkusu SG

maybe she's hanging on to her bf while waitin for a better guy to come by.

who knows..

cornyfish2000 SG

Third party got nothing to lose and everything to gain... thick-skinned enough can liao. Laughing

rainee SG

x2 Evil or Very Mad

Yunhaier SG

Actually most of the time, the relationship is unstable itself and not the introduction of a third party.

Then if a third party occurs and shaken the relationship, despite being a strong relationship, it has to be the man/woman who is shaken to allow the relationship to be shaken isn't it?

In the end, it is either the man or the woman who GAVE the relationship up to pursue a different relationship that causes the relationship to fail through freewill.

They chose it that way.

Who is to be blame?

Third party or person who is shaken?

Catalysis by itself has no power to command. Like always: a perfectly satisfied woman cannot be seduced. An unstable relationship is from within: fix what is needed to repair and you don't have to fear.

P.S: When a man/woman desired to break free from their relationship through freewill, they would - with or without a third party.

Because they chose it. Idea

Cheers

BrUtUs SG

the gal getting to noe them dun mean she is interested in them.... unless she got a very rubbish relationship then chances are there... otherwise they can expect the same old words of rejection... tell them to wake up la...

dcx SG

x10000000000

cornyfish2000 SG

Personally i feel that as long as a couple is not married, the words 'cheating' and 'third party' should not even come into the picture. After all, either party has absolutely no obligation towards each other as far as 'fidelity' is concerned.

What's the purpose of chaining someone up when the couple is not even married? You'll just make him an unhappy man for the rest of his life. There may be someone out there who is much more suited to be his lifelong partner. If you really love him, you should set him free and wish him happiness... and not be selfish and put people down as 'unfaithful', 'third party' etc etc

darknessfall SG

wow..u seems to be a victim before....

Ristar SG

all is fair in love and war.