She's / He's attached

Devil1976 SG

Originally posted by Yunhaier:

Actually most of the time, the relationship is unstable itself and not the introduction of a third party.

Then if a third party occurs and shaken the relationship, despite being a strong relationship, it has to be the man/woman who is shaken to allow the relationship to be shaken isn't it?

In the end, it is either the man or the woman who GAVE the relationship up to pursue a different relationship that causes the relationship to fail through freewill.

They chose it that way.

Who is to be blame?

Third party or person who is shaken?

Catalysis by itself has no power to command. Like always: [b]a perfectly satisfied woman cannot be seduced. An unstable relationship is from within: fix what is needed to repair and you don't have to fear.

P.S: When a man/woman desired to break free from their relationship through freewill, they would - with or without a third party.

Because they chose it. Idea

Cheers[/b]

Generally quite true.... But actually... There're more to it....

CannyOng SG

Sure bo? Then might as well don't say 'bf,gf'. Attach means nothing,no obligation! She is yr gf but next moment can hug and kiss another guy? It is not abt chaining up someone but the word 'commitment'! U have already give a verbal promise, a promise in a mature r/s is not child play! LIke what u say,married liao can also having a divorce like eating a sweet easily? An oligation not easily broken and not given up easily! Both needs effort to make things work. A r/s purely works on love is very dangerous..

Sekundes SG

I just believe that marriage, is just a word, and a unduanted and unnesscessary process.
Due to things happening now a these days, divorce and seperations.

Its just like saying I need to do some ritual before anything can happen, you guys know what I mean ?

Sometimes, Its a important process that makes one go through to have a great memory about, yes but, if some people just want that memory for a past and move on with a different future this is just like syaing you're just gonna be watching a movie and you're done, you just move off leaving your pop corns and drinks in the theatre.

In those days without marriage and legal stuff or any ceremonies,
You mean ladies just go for any man at any moment ?

I just believe that being together is just a word,
and to prove your together you must prove it with your heart not jsut words or actions that only meant to be for the moment.

If you really want to spend your life with a girl/guy you love,
then get married, to share the wonderful memory.
Don't use it as a temporary thing, nor a process to enjoy for a while.

smudgey SG

here's my belief.

If you are attached and unhappy, it's up to u to fix the relationship or give up. my advice is NOT to give up your partner just because someone new, more exciting, seemingly better has showed his/her interest. but to evaluate if what you and your current partner have is worth holding on to or is that pointless.

If you are interested in a gal/guy who's attached (as in really really really like her/him) then it's up to u to fight for the person you love. no one can tell you wat you are doing is wrong (unless the person in question is MARRIED). BUT think about it from this angle, If the gal/guy u like is having problems with her/his partner, and she/he decides to give up her/his partner and be with you... What happens when you two meet up with problems (what relationships have no problems?) and someone else starts wooing her? will you be able to trust her/him not to run off?

cornyfish2000: I agree that as long as they are not married, anybody is free to woo her/him. but as the party that's attached, I believe there's a mutual understanding between me and my bf. as long as we are attached, we will not date, or get involved with anyone else. If I really want out of the relationship, I'll break up first before even considering another relationship

^Delta^ SG

My thoughts exactly... Do not do onto others what u do not wan happen to urself...

The gal that I like will get together with another guy real soon... Am I going to intrude and cause them to split? Or even if they dun, cause her much misetry in the process? DEFINITELY NO... I feel terrible, but better one to feel terrible than two... Neutral

If a person really loves another, he/she should learn to let go. Leave the happy couple alone.

I love her, I really do... I wun ever do anything to cause her misery...

Sekundes SG

After all the posting,
Its just up to one sentence,

Treasure or lose it. ^^,

Komon SG

Recently i go for a girl that is attacted ... so was'nt any BIG deal larh jus be prepare either she choose u or that guy lorh anyway my situation is that her feelings already fade lerh tat 's y she dun like him den... jus play along with it lorh anyway i really pity the guy ..... but i am prepare that 1 day she might does the same thing to me also Cool

ölala SG

Be prepare to b flung like a rag

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