The advice I sought from u all is that should I give all this
presents to her knowing that I will kanna rejected once again
it
is the present I store and delayed until her birthday
..eg one for
valentine one for Christmas and etc
sadly I failed to
give.
1st point: do not supplicate a girl with gifts, drinks, food
unless she is already yours, and even then, do it to reward her.
girls do not respect guys who supplicate, contrary to popular
belief.
No matter how I conveyed to her the care and concern
extraordinarily always seem that she do not know fully of my
actions or onli know about 50% that wat I am doing for
her.
2nd point: do not be such a sucker by doing so much for her. by
doing this, you lower your value while increasing hers due to the
fact that you lowered yours because of her. just screw it and dun
do anything. and at this point, u basically lost already, anything
else u do is just a waste of time, resources and effort.
To share some background, she did not have relationship b4 and do
not wan one currently. This I know, that y I patiently lie in
wait.
3rd point: u waited. u did not make yourself seem more
interesting, attractive, intriguing, smarter or showed her that u
have value during this time nor did u build enough rapport with her
for her to be 'soft hearted' to u.
instead, u did all those things to 'serve' her and lowered your
value all the time.
give up. do not celebrate with her. pull out completely, give her
0% attention now. its just a waste of your time, unless its your
hobby to be humiliated/rejected.
The cure for 'one-itis' is to go and have sex with a dozen (or two)
girls and then come back and see if this flower is so special
afterall.
