GF 3 months pregnant.. no money for abortion

last SG · 2006-02-27T01:55:58+00:00

The pressure on you guys in very great. Studies aside, consider how will someone think as the days goes by. Society still doesn't really accept unwed mother...

neverendingtrauma SG

need $500 more by 1 week.. where to get? im 18 shes 17. 100% cant let our parents know. pro life christians wont allow abortion thinking its murder and we'll go to hell. both our back accounts no more money. we dont have medisave right? cant use ezycash loans either.

100% cant dont abort. she insists too. her mother is psycho.. shant say more here.

Ito_^ SG

parents or any relatives dat u can trust wld be the best.

FireIce SG

dun abort

there are ways out definitely

aRcTiC_sTaR SG

Like?

SGpork SG

Rolling Eyes

sigh ...

DrTech SG

As much as i would like this option if it ever happens... but... society now difficult for teenage moms.

Then again, I wouldn't have the heart to...

alfagal SG

y issit by one more week?

or e foetus getting too big...risky to do e surgery?

FireIce SG

Pregnancy Crisis Service Tel: 6339 9770

Ito_^ SG

adoption? but it depends on the couple la, im not against nor pro.

CoolMyth SG

http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=75218

Cool

teochoo SG

+1
There is a life and of you both.

shrekho SG

CAll ME cruel, or damn arse hole...

Whenever people ask for my opinion on teenage birth, I always object.

The finance strain is tough. The mental torture is crazy. The isolation from people is unbearable. For teenagers, it is a damn tough choice to cope with too.

I would suggest abortion, sounds cruel, but personally feel that there is less problems for both. Unless both side of the parents can agree and help, there isn't much choice to work with.

eClipseRain SG

do chun li fa kick on ur gf.

Master -_- SG

drink pineapple juice ba…

shade343 SG

If its less than 3 months old, I would advise aborting it.

Tier SG

ohh man check whether is it risky to abort at 3 mths will it harm your gf health. if really cant save up to the amount then have to prepare to give birth to the baby le. Life is just so unpredictable. call the hotline ba. see what the advice they give.

shade343 SG

As for money, sell your handphone and whatever. Ask for a loan from a charity or something.

hisoka SG

i think having he child would be much more expensive man

stellazio SG

raise the kid..if u mention being a christian..i believe after sinning once,u shud not go any further..raise the kid and be a good parent..

let ur parents know,they will scold and nag whatever,but it can't be helped..

dun let the kid die for nth,it won't hurt u except for ur piggy bank but think about the mother..such a traumatizing experience for her might scar her for life..there have been reports of people entering depression after pregnancy..

go raise the kid and be responsible dude..

FBI SG

abort it, yes it's cruel but think again will u b able to afford it at your age?

Secondly your gf might jus ditch the child with u and ran off in the end u suffer.

And don go to some unlicense clinics for abortiion, i have gruesome stories abt it