Should I or not?

sgboy SG

Got to know of a girl in class.. Have been a few months. We are in good terms and I feel very happy when I talk to her. She got a bf a month or so ago.

If a girl got bf, it is reasonable for me to go after her? Or should I just be friends?

What should I do?

udontknowme SG

Don't interfere. If she's serious with her bf, and truly loves him, there's nothing you can do, I'm afraid. You can't make two people break up just because you happen to like one. Sometimes it goes beyond that. Remember, people'e emotions are at stake wherever relationships are involved. While she's with her bf, you don't have a chance. If she happens to break up with him, then you can tell her how you feel about her, and maybe get somewhere. But when the girl you like has a bf, the closest you can get is be her friend...sorry.
if she is going to dump her current bf for you, if she meets another guy she likes, she'll likely dump you for him too...

ch0i SG

ya lor
dun be a marriage broker
oops ch0i mean hor its relationship
no nice u noe wen u c people break your relationship off
wad if u dat guy ? how ? u hantam the other guy or not
sad u noe
see if the gerl got hint hint u anything or not

icYwATeR SG

put yourself in that guy shoes – if u were that guy and some 1 go after ur gf what would u be feeling?

ditzy SG

Wait a minute, you're in melbourne right? Don't do anything foolish I wouldn't do. Laughing

pwnz0r SG

We used to have a saying for overseas relationships, esp for students. What happens in ____ stays in ____.

Just be careful. I've seen a lot of 'sex buddies' cases when I was studying abroad.

Ah Cek SG

sgboy, go for it!

this is fair competition.

the fittest survives.

candyger SG

do not interfere. it's not going to do u any good.

just be her fren lor.

Ah Cek SG

u never know whether tat guy is suitable for her or not.

maybe she falls for his sweet talk.

if u think u r more suitable and qualify than him, why not go for it?

it's her happiness at stake know!

donchoo SG

Just let her know you exist can already, don't ever be her friend.

Be the first one there if she ever breaks, and there you have it.

tiggersgd SG

not to be a wet blanket but u guys have known each other for some months and only now u want to let her know of ur love for her when she's already have a bf????

1. y wait till so long (and esp. when she has gotten herself a bf) b4 u want to speak up?

2. do u think she likes u more than her current bf? if so, y didn't she waited for you or even hint abt liking you to want to be with u?

3. by telling her your feelings, will it help in your current relationship with her or degrade it step/s down?

is it better for u to stay as a friend to her (u already existed in her outer social circle)?

Devil1976 SG

What you think Question

browniebaobao SG

No lor.

Even if u really win her over, how will people look at you?

Third party?

M©+square SG

Should.

SexyChin SG

Get her quick or you might regret for life.

M©+square SG

Correct. Just whack! Talk later! Laughing

BrUtUs SG

dun b a dick unless she is very unhapi in her relationship... if u like her, keep contact n be good friends... if luck is wif u tat a breakup occur then its ur chance... but seriously, theres so many gals around so dun lose ur chance wif others...

nullifi3d SG

Just plot your mastermind plan to break them apart.