I need advice especially from gals

last SG · 2006-03-16T12:12:25+00:00

Hmm... Psychological tricks crawling up your head... All I wanna say for now is BE WISE about it... GOOD LUCK...?

siongs SG

My ex-stead msg me today......n she told me she is single liaoz......
wats her motive ?.............pls give advice...thanks

so_what SG

If she contacts u when she has not broke off with her bf, then it's jus a frd needs console.

If she suddenly contact u after she broke off wif her bf, then u better be careful, maybe she's lonely, nobody to turn to, and she thinks maybe u stil got feelings for her, then she jus needs a guy's love !

Take care dude Razz

LinLing SG

Well, for one thing, she is telling you she is single again and you can go wooing her.
The another thing is that she probably is going through a argument with her boyfriend and is lying saying that she is single so that her boyfriend will be jealous and say sorry....which means she is using it.

Just deduce from her actions on what she is doing to you, ok? Keep us informed!

1bigmess SG

u r the rebound guy Twisted Evil

browniebaobao SG

maybe she juz need someone to comfort her.

siongs SG

i m sure tat she alrdy break off wit da guy…........yea she suddenly msg me…..she said thx for my concern n care for her… n bla…....n we talk on da phone juz now….but awhile only coz i got sumthing to do !!

LinLing SG

Well....................
It means she want to get back with you and start over anew!

sunrisez SG

It might mean that she still has feelings for you...
It might also be that she still treats you as a friend and just confiding in you...
In the meantime, if you still wanna continue being friends with her, maybe you can just console her...
Don't think so much first...

Qing^.^ SG

My gut feeling is she has feelings for u.. Wink

but its beta now to JIAN JI XING SHI-rough translation: act according to situation..

R3SsH|n SG

spare tyre?

spencer99 SG

what is most impt is what YOU feel about her?

Do you treat her as a frend only? strictly platonic?

Do you still have strong feelings for her?

Do you have feelings of lust for her?

chances are it is a combination of the above......

but be conscious of ur own feelings..... and see if the two of u can click..... as long as there is no mismatch between what you want (above) and what she needs... there shouldn't be any issue.

Cenarious SG

y need careful guys love free sex

ndmmxiaomayi SG

Motive will be hard to tell until you meet her. If she gives subtle hints like sitting to closer to you than she usually does, talks about your relationship with her, etc... then my guess is that she still likes you. No guarantee for that, maybe she just needs comfort, which resulted in the above actions.

But as you two meet more often and if the hints got more and stronger, most likely she likes you. If those hints go off after a few meetings and she no longer wants to meet you, you are just someone whom she confides to.

siongs SG

Hey guys…..honestly i m in another country now !! n i m goin bck to sg in july mayb later than july i guess…....n wat for she luking for me to confides her ? u dun she find any guys over there ? very lame lor…...

smudgey SG

don't look too much into it... maybe she just wants to confide in someone she knows will not judge her?

just be her friend.

zeny SG

why break up then?

You say she was your ex but what was the main reason she broke up with you?

strange.

siongs SG

i dun think so......she done sumthing bad to me when we were together last time ! i really hate her during da 1st few months after break up with her !! n she noes tat too........

smudgey SG

if that's so then just ignore her, whatever her intentions

yuko-ogura SG

did she keep in contact (and i mean v close contact..) with u while she was still hanging out wif her bf?

if not,let's face it...most likely she is trying to find a substitute after the breakup..

if yes,there might be a chance for u..she might have been waiting for the breakup so that she can be with u..

wadever the case..observe first and deal with the situation as u deem fit..

no point troubling urself over those few words..

sinicker SG

chiu ish too obvious oreallys! chiu is really 1bigmess! Twisted Evil