My b/f has asked me to take some pictures

ShrodingersCat SG

Compatibility in sexuality is important for a long term relationship. I don't think there is anything wrong with what he is asking - but I do think to threaten his loyalty in exchange for it is underhanded. Faithfulness should never be used as a weapon to obtain sexual favours in a commited relationship.

This is a good way of understanding your partner more, and knowing if he is the type of person you would like to settle down with - afterall you have already been together 3 years. If it isn't, better to cut the line.

kettie SG

Thank you for your considering. Yes, I am sincerely looking for advice and also to see if there are other guys also asking their g/r to do the same and how they react to this. Therefore, If you want to have a "fun" conversation which is insensitive to others, please give me some respect and go to the Bar.

ShrodingersCat SG

Hee.. don't make ur decision based on peer pressure wor. Other people may be completely fine with it doesn't mean you have to.

fudgester SG

Well, there are indeed other guys asking their girlfriends to do the same thing.

We have a term for such guys: 'jerks'.

So my advice is to dump this jerk for someone else who respects women.

acer_girl SG

+1 Mr. Green

kettie SG

He mentioned that he doesnt like to search online because it is not me and he doesn't feel connected to me by looking at these pictures. By doing this, he feels very close to me. In three yr r/s, we had sex only once and that was b/c I didnt want and he respected. When he went overseas for work and came back home, we spent holidays together, and both could not control. This was the first time we had sex after three yrs together. Then he left for overseas again. Long distant r/s is risk taking. I just have a gut feeling that it will end no where and finally remains in me a loss although we both do not have anyone at the moment (I trust him). But it is just an intuition telling me and I always trust my intuition.

It comes to my conclusion now by not doing that for whatever reason.

ShrodingersCat SG

Well listen to your intuition then. Sometimes long distance relationships work in strange ways. Smile However, sexuality is something you cannot ignore and pretend doesn't exist. When I say sexuality - i dont mean sex but desire. And there should be nothing wrong if both are consenting adults. If you are uncomfortable with sending him photographs, but still wish that there is something you can do - try thinking of a compromise Wink

babygalz SG

well said! Mr. Green

qooorange SG

u make him take his first and send it to u.. .then u take urs and send it to him.. without the face of course

fymk SG

Dump him. I think he is an idiot and you will be a bigger idiot if you give him those pictures. Think of what he can use against you if the relationship turns sour.

BigBlueBird SG

Have you heard of Tammy? Laughing

rebound SG

dun think a nice guy, well-educated, quite caring person can ask for such request from his gf and if she refude end up in cold war....

btw if u really wan 2 take the pic dun mind share it in the froum Laughing

SGpork SG

dont understand..
show face not good enough? why must show ...

whats up with him..
if i were u..ill say NO..

Wink Wink Wink

Devil1976 SG

Hmm.

ch0i SG

ch0i say hor u dun eve tink of it okiess ?
if he say liddat means he no respek for u la
he not your hubby rite
means he no see u up izit
neber mine ..
u tell him not to say liddat again or ....

BadzMaro SG

Well, personally i dun see whats wrong with taking picture.. but i also dun see any reason he has to be upset if u reject.

dcx SG

Originally posted by kettie:
My b/f has asked me to take some pictures to send him becasue he is working overseas. But the problem is he wants to see me sexy, showing my @&[email protected]&@ like those online. He said he wants to feel good with me and by doing that, he stays loyal with me?? I dont like this idea because I think it is quite cheap for a gilr to do so. I feel ashamed to do it. I said , when we have holidyas together, we can make love as how much as we like, but not taking this kind of pcitures. We ended in argument and now a cold war.

I know he is a nice guy, well-educated, quite caring; But it becomes distant r/s, not sure how our future will be. I just have some thoughts in mind , but not share with him.

What should I do? I am right. We have been together for 3 yrs.

Why not you tell him back.......if he don't request for such request, yuo'll stay loyal to him too...and if by posting your nude pics to him proves his loyalty to you....then having sex with him will lead to eternity?

If so, there won't be any divorce cases in the world liao....

And if you really send him your nude pix, and one fine day, you quarrel with him n broke up...how would you feel? Your nude pics are still with him and he felt like revenging(hopefully he's not that kind...but no assurance...not even you can assure that), send out the pics out...how? Your future will be gone....can lift up your head n walk along orchard?

Do not be totally controlled by him.....

Itachi SG

yea.. i believe some ppl do post nude pix of their ex around.. dangerous..

M©+square SG

depends depends depends.

Itachi SG

i came across this “gf boobs sharing thread” before..

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