hey guys i would like post my fren's case here since it is
partly related to this topic, hope u can help me out. A few days
ago i had a long chat with a good friend of mine, basically he has
most of the symptoms listed by u guys towards a particular girl,
but he wants to forget the person and move on as it brings him too
much sadness and the problem is he cannot forget, i never really
came across such problem before so i did not know what to say to my
fren. After further asking, i learnt that he made some mistakes
before and thus chasing the girl is almost impossible, as for being
friends maybe, erm note he did not do anything harmful to the girl
yea in case u guys are thinking otherwise.
My fren also said it saddens him whenever he sees the girl as it
reminds him of his mistakes, i thought since they have both
graduated seeing each other should be quite unlikely, i was wrong
as he said he saw her a few times within 1 or 2 weeks, at places he
didnt really expect to find her and even asked me why is he so
unlucky. lol, i do not really know how to answer or help him.
Alright after hearing, my pov is that my fren seems to be still
hanging onto this girl, its like half hanging on half wanting to
forget, sigh this guy used to be a cheerful fella who dont give a
heck about this kind of girls stuff, so fellow AA friends pls help
my fren out, what should i say to him? btw hes going into army very
soon, not sure if it will make the situation worse..
