Sometimes do you feel like you are not needed in this world?

last SG · 2006-04-06T22:12:30+00:00

Sorry to put this bluntly but... So What? Just do what you like,whenever you feel like it. You don't need to find a reason to live, you don't need to asser...

jam on a bread SG

I always feel that way..I mean, there are better people out there and what makes me so special? I do not think anyone out there needs me. I think they only want people with benefits. How abt you, do you feel this way?

beavan SG

sometimes i feel that way too..

but think of it this way, u MUST have at least impacted people in some way or another

dunn1e SG

I feel the same last time. Took me 2 years to get rid of this feeling. Maybe its because you are lonely? You feel you aren't special to someone and stuff. You just have to do alot of self-reflection and then self-improvement.

Take a look around you. See your friends smile at your presence? there you've made an impact on their lifes. thats how i make myself feel important, making people around me smile and laugh, to be a blessing to others.

Patrik SG

Everyone is in this world for a reason.
U probably feel this way because u have not yet achieved anything u want right?And u are probably single,yet to find that someone of urs right?And what makes u think that u dun have any benefits?
Wink

korusu SG

well actually i think that we are not really needed in the world lah our function can be easily replaced by other competent people even our loved ones can receive equal or even more love from other people as well without any inputs from us….

Parka SG

Do you care if the world don't need you?

browniebaobao SG

u might have touched people's life without you knowing.

is it important how much you are needed in this world? Or does it matter more how much you can contribute to this world?

And what is ur purpose of living? To feel needed? That shouldn't be the reason why you are living right?

Devil1976 SG

No. In fact it doesn't really matters what I feel... For the fact is certainly not that...

It's true and I would agree with you that I'm not the best in this world...

How special you are is just how special you make yourself out to be...

There shouldn't be any much doubt if you're a person needed in this world... It's really just a matter of whether you're where you're needed... And what would you be doing when there're hands reaching out for your concern...

tortoise55 SG

I too had such feeling when I was in secondary school and to poly. Keep wondering why were I here. Its was a time when I mostly kept to myself, in sec sch, was very quiet in class, dun really have much to talk to others, although I was with a big group of friends. When we went out, if the ppl who were there are more then 4 ppl, I will be very quiet de. But slowly I moved out of the circle. Its all part and parcel of life, you have to go through it before you can walk out of it. Be strong Smile

My 2 cents worth Mr. Green

dunn1e SG

i rather think of this as a stage we have to pass during our teenage years. i had these during sec 1 and 2 Neutral

nullifi3d SG

Humans are senstitive creatures and they need to feel special once in awhile. Its a normal feeling but don't dwell into it. Find things to do and try to hang more with your friends.

LinLing SG

Sure. I feel this way ALOT of times when friends neglects me and family members FORGET about me and leave me out of things.

It is a feeling like "I'm born here to fill up the remaining spaces so I am useless", yea?
It is more common around the age of 11-15. (Puberty, I think)

Devil1976 SG

That shall depends on how you wanna fill up your remaining empty spaces..? Wink

rainhawk87 SG

ya this space have to be fill up.
it going to be someone who like to chat alots who can disturb all in the group and let the group feel like a team rather then self.

FBI SG

your existance in this world is to contribute to others life.

If u are joker, u can really entertain ppl and bring life to others.

if u are a doc, cop, firefighter, nurse and watever it is, u can save someone's life.

if u are a musician, your music can bring life to ppl.

watever u are, your existance is impt to others in this world.

u really need to know why u are here

M©+square SG

Twisted Evil mode : on:

Then do you know why and what you're here for?

What makes you so sure that you're here for that reason?(your answer from the above question)

Cheers

Mr. Green ::resume friendly mode::

alexkusu SG

I make sure people needs me Mr. Green

ferryman2393 SG

First, don't give shit what other people think of you.

Second, get yourself something real to keep you occupied. Preferably ones that can offer you spiritual satisfaction. Wealth accumulation can be a spiritually satisfied thing (no gambling here). Or community service. Or better still, join the Navy.

You get the idea.

ferryman2393 SG

One more thing, get yourself a new nick.

iceFatboy SG

you always important 2 your loved ones