Forumites, thanks for all your contributions for now.. As much
as I understand most of you have your valid points to tell, pls try
to understand that youngsters often have their own ways of
thinking... I'm not about to comment whether they're 'right' or
'wrong', but rather.. I suppose you can say they can be quite
different...
Majority of your maturity, thinkings and experience can be quite
different from them.. And hence your ideas might sound alienated to
them as much as theirs might sound the same to you... With that
'gap' in between the generations.. I certainly would not think it
quite possible for them to quickly absorb your ideas, inputs,
thinkings.. Not to mention that they might not even be accepting
your advices in the 1st place... But if you wish the better for
them, pls try to be patient with them... Even adults would need
time to sort out their feelings, and as some of the forumites have
already mentioned... Feelings can certainly be genuinely involved
in an online relationship, otherwise there won't have been so many
couples developing from knowing each other online...
As for Princess and her online bf... I would personally advise you
to sort things out between each other as peacefully as you can...
FORGET about what the others have said and just simply end
things... 'Kai' already has a gf and Princess is not for that...
Whatever it is, things would certainly come to an end whether it's
ugly or not.... So why not both parties just end the whole thing as
simply as possible and persue no more.. Just let it
'settle'...
As much as many forumites out there might be genuinely concerned
about the whole thing, I personally feel that it just might not be
so meaningful to go after the whole story... It'll certainly help
and be easier for the 2 involved parties to let go willing if
there're less people knowing the 'story' which might otherwise
possibly 'evolve' into other versions of it to complicate
matter....
As told.. What done cannot be undone. It's time to bury things and
get on with each other's life....
